How to get a Fleshlight without parents knowing.

[Arashi19]

Hey all, I'm new here, so please play nice!

I'm a 19 year old male who's has never had any luck what so ever. Sadly, the closest I've come to a relationship ended...painfully.

However, this has done nothing to curb my sex drive, which is only going up (no pun intended ) Normal masturbation is ok, but lately, it's just not enough. So, I started looking at other options, and came upon the Fleshlight. I've heard many great things about it, and was looking at getting one.

My problem is that I still live with parents, and they are VERY puritan about sex (basically, sex=worse thing imaginable). Needless to say, this causes some...issues...

Anyway, I was hopeing you all could help me in my endever for a Fleshlight! I have a credit card, though i suspect parents can see purchases. Are there any tips on how to order one, get it delivered, and use it without them knowing? Any advice would be GREATLY appreciated.

Thank you!

P.S sorry for any grammar/spelling mistakes! first time on a forum...

[YourEternalRest]

Tell them that you're an adult and that you're paying it with your own money. If they really think that sex is the "worst thing imaginable," then remind them that they are hypocrites for conceiving you.

[scarbowl]

If you use the credit card they'll know you're up to something. You'll have to find an adult book store or sex shop that has these and buy with cash. Otherwise, you'll have to find a friend who will do it for you but it might be too awkward to ask.

The Fleshlight is a great device, though. If you get one, be sure and use enough lube - hand cream is easiest to clean up. You have to keep it clean and allow it to dry.

Even if you can get one without their knowing, how will you hide it from them? This all sounds rather difficult. But perhaps if someone finds it they will be too embarrassed to ask you!

Good luck! (And don't challenge your parents on this - it will only lead to more trouble).

[Arashi19]

I deffinatly cannot tell them upfront. I probably should clarify, they are not against sex per se, just sex without procreation (sp?). So anything masturbation, casual, anal, you name it, it's forbbidon.

I actually do have a rather open friend I can ask who's helped me with a lot of things, any advice on (gently) asking? (a she, btw)

Also, hiding it is no problem. My room (thankfully) comes with plenty of hide-holes, if you know how to use them

If they find it, though... well, let's just hope their love will overcome anything else... not holding my breath...

Anyway, thanks for the advice! If anyone has anything else to add, I'll take all the advice I can get!

[kinkysophie]

I heard that sex toys are now available at Target and Wallmart, so why bother buying with a card? If you feel awkward on asking however, you could ask a mature friend for the favor and hopefully things would work out fine. Just don't let sex toys be your only resort because they're meant to help increase sex, not to stand as the whole channel for sex. Good luck and give us an update on how you do.

[MrTaco]

Im probably to late and you probably already figured it out and got one, but if you havent, use ebay with credit card. im 16 and i use ebay, have it shipped to your female friends house and dont let her or her parents open it

[belvedereful]

[quote=Arashi19;14589]Hey all, I'm new here, so please play nice!

I'm a 19 year old male who's has never had any luck what so ever. Sadly, the closest I've come to a relationship ended...painfully.

However, this has done nothing to curb my sex drive, which is only going up (no pun intended ) Normal masturbation is ok, but lately, it's just not enough. So, I started looking at other options, and came upon the Fleshlight. I've heard many great things about it, and was looking at getting one.

My problem is that I still live with parents, and they are VERY puritan about sex (basically, sex=worse thing imaginable). Needless to say, this causes some...issues...

Anyway, I was hopeing you all could help me in my endever for a Fleshlight! I have a credit card, though i suspect parents can see purchases. Are there any tips on how to order one, get it delivered, and use it without them knowing? Any advice would be GREATLY appreciated.

Thank you!

P.S sorry for any grammar/spelling mistakes! first time on a forum...[/QUOTE
My dear Arashi ,
Your generation is fortunate enough to get answers from respected people like Mr.Dan&Mrs Jennifer . You will be relieved of lot of tension and inhibitions a lot in common at your age . It is easy to say concentrate on studies but difficult to follow as all of us have passed through same phase as you are in because of nature which is powerful .Some friends have answered your question. My advice is never keep stressed by not sharing with others and spoil your future . Regarding spellings etc also donot bother as long as you are daring to communicate freely . It is like learning swimming . We have to make a beginning ! Good luck !
belvedereful