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Old 07-03-2009, 10:38 PM
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Unhappy which toy should i get??? i need help!

so here's my problem. i cant have an orgasm during sex and it bothers my new boyfriend, after talking to a friend she suggested that maybe i've sort of programed my body to only come through clitoral stimulation and thought i should try to get a dildo or vibrator and practice getting myself to orgasm that way but i dont know what kind of toy to get. there's so many out there its a little over whelming. any suggestions????
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Old 07-07-2009, 01:10 AM
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Dan and Jenn just did a video on this.
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Old 07-26-2009, 01:41 AM
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i would suggest jack rabbit... it's a dobuble dildo. it pleasures both ur clit and ur g-spot
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Old 07-26-2009, 03:06 PM
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You might also consider Pleasure Ring with vibrant egg. It 's toy for both of you to use and it's a lot of fun + you two can use it during intercourse
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Old 09-22-2009, 12:11 PM
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Lightbulb Here's how to buy your first vibrator...

Hi Penny! Here's a segment we just published on how to buy your first vibrator - the in-s and out-s, etc.
* Note: We also got our friends at Adam & Eve to offer a pretty great exclusive deal to our viewers - check that out here.
Sex Toys 101: How To Buy Your First Vibrator (Video)

A vibrator may or may not help with the issue, but sex toys are a good way for a couple to add some more variety to their sex life.

Let us know how this goes for you...
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Old 09-29-2009, 12:35 AM
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You have to get a mutifunctional vibrator. This get you in all the right places.
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Old 09-29-2009, 12:51 AM
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What works best varies by the woman as other posters note. < Moderator Note: snide comments removed > But they do cover Lelo which can be found $80 via Amazon if you don;t mind a particular on sale color. Otherwise, expect $125+.
But, it really works best internally than externally.

Probably the best clitoral vibrator in the market is the erocillator. It does NOT vibrate but instead oscillates, This far less wearing on the clitoris and does an amazing job. It doesn;t use batteries, electric but cord is very long. It is relatively quiet which is a big deal and it shape makes it VERY easy to use during sex, Only negative is prolonged use can make you a bit dependent on it. Yes, it's that good.
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Old 09-29-2009, 04:13 AM
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You might also keep in mind that only around 25% of women orgasm from intercourse alone. Most require additional stimulation either during intercourse (such as the vibrator you are considering) or by oral sex/manual stimulation afterwards.

There's nothing unusual about your situation.

Also, the vibrator will add interesting sensations for him as well.
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Old 09-29-2009, 09:26 AM
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Exclamation Best luxury vibrator vs. first sex toy

Indeed, some of the best vibrators on the market in our opinion are the LELO and JimmyJane brands. these are actually covered in the "Luxury Sex Toys" video we did recently - it's framed higher up in this same thread.

However the cost for these is on average well over $100 which is why we don't recommend them as a first sex toy.

The challenge with cheap sex toys (LOL, with most things that are cheap) is that many are poor quality, which is why we chose the particular ones you see in this video - the goal was some inexpensive first toys that are OK quality, so you can see the different options before buying that $100+ one.

Just a quick reminder to everyone (particularly our new members), please keep all comments positive and respectful. It's absolutely OK to offer other opinions or to disagree with anyone, but it must be done in a respectful and positive way - that's a firm rule in these forums and repeated violations will result in account banning.

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