Sex toys for couples? YES!

[K. in Cleveland]

Warning parts of this post contain horribly graphic and frank discussion of sex and use proper anatomical terms.
OK, once again I was watching a television show where sex was the topic. I apologize for not remembering the name of the show or even the channel it was on (it was on one of those really high-numered channels and I don't usually check them out).
The main topic was about sex toys for couples. There was one guest who does bachelorette parties and has sold toys for about 3 years. Even she didn't know couples use sex toys!
Also, the male host and audience members (male and female) thought that single men bough pocket pussies and single women bought dildos and when someone became part of a couple they didn't need toys.
I've used a website that specifically targets couples.

Guys, don't be intimidated to use a toy on your woman. There are things that a vibrator can do that fingers, a tongue, or a penis cannot do. Likewise, ladies, don't be afraid to use toys for your boys. Sometimes the vibration on his testicles or penis can increase his pleasure. Also, guys and girls, don't be afraid to use prostate stimulation for yourself or your partner. This simple act, stimulating the prostate, can intensify a man's orgasm. There are so many wonderful things that couples can share in the enjoyment and pleasure with sex toys, or marital aids as they're sometimes called when marketed to couples.

Open up, relax, and have fun. Sex toys aren't something you have to go to the bad side of town after midnight, in a trench coat and big sunglasses to get. There are many upscale establishments that even promote couples and carry items for guys and girls to enjoy together.

*note, this post was written with straight couples in mind, but there are also plenty of toys for gay and lesbian (or bisexual) enjoyment as well!

[Ks]

Hey, just to say, my boyfriend never knew that either. It took him awhile to let me use something on him but now he enjoys it so much he asks me to do it alot and he even does it on his own sometimes when i'm not over there. I like things that need batteries..,..hehehehehe actually he does too. and he loves the prostate stuff, but don't tell him i told because he would be so embarased. he thinks guys shouldnt like anything up there buts cause then they must be gay and he doesn't want people to think hes gay. I tryd telling him it's ok and doesn't mean he is gay but he wont listen.
Any suggestions from anyone on how to tell him hes not gay cause he likes his but played with?

[K. in Cleveland]

Hey KOs.. gimme a call later when you can..
But here's some tips that might help you talk to him, and to let him know that he's not gay just because he likes anal play.
First of all, explain to him that gay means men who have sex with other men. Bisexual is having sex with men and women. If he has never had sex with a man then he is neither gay nor bisexual. If he is fantasizing about having sex with other men then he may have some latent homosexual tendencies. But that's OK too. I'm very happy being bi, and I know many men and women that are the same way.

Then you may want to explain to him about his prostate. He truly may not be aware of what it does. It is sometimes referred to as the Male G-spot because it truly enhances his sexual experience. This is why men have anal sex.

It may also ease his mind if you use a less phallic looking toy. That way he doesn't visualize a penis inside of him as that may be causing some of his issues.

You may also want to bring him to this website and show him some of the discussions that have been had on this topic. Just be patient with him. I know he was raised to think that any kind of homosexuality is wrong. So was I, and I was also raised to believe that sex before marriage and anything other than monogamy is wrong. Thankfully I grew up and realized that humans are sexual creatures.

I hope this helps.

[Ks]

Thanks K. I don't know if he'll come on here and look at the stuff but i will tell him the things you said to do. I had to look up phallic.. why didn't you just say something that doesn't look like a dick?
Anyway, thanks for the tips. I am gonnna go look at the other stuff you said to to.

[K. in Cleveland]

Originally Posted by total_K0s

Thanks K. I don't know if he'll come on here and look at the stuff but i will tell him the things you said to do. I had to look up phallic.. why didn't you just say something that doesn't look like a dick?
Anyway, thanks for the tips. I am gonnna go look at the other stuff you said to to.

I'm sorry that you had to look that up, I just try to use more proper terminology and less slang. I just don't feel right using certain terms here.. you know?

[Sub In Tenn]

Originally Posted by K. in Cleveland

Warning parts of this post contain horribly graphic and frank discussion of sex and use proper anatomical terms.
OK, once again I was watching a television show where sex was the topic. I apologize for not remembering the name of the show or even the channel it was on (it was on one of those really high-numered channels and I don't usually check them out).
The main topic was about sex toys for couples. There was one guest who does bachelorette parties and has sold toys for about 3 years. Even she didn't know couples use sex toys!
Also, the male host and audience members (male and female) thought that single men bough pocket pussies and single women bought dildos and when someone became part of a couple they didn't need toys.
I've used a website that specifically targets couples.

Guys, don't be intimidated to use a toy on your woman. There are things that a vibrator can do that fingers, a tongue, or a penis cannot do. Likewise, ladies, don't be afraid to use toys for your boys. Sometimes the vibration on his testicles or penis can increase his pleasure. Also, guys and girls, don't be afraid to use prostate stimulation for yourself or your partner. This simple act, stimulating the prostate, can intensify a man's orgasm. There are so many wonderful things that couples can share in the enjoyment and pleasure with sex toys, or marital aids as they're sometimes called when marketed to couples.

Open up, relax, and have fun. Sex toys aren't something you have to go to the bad side of town after midnight, in a trench coat and big sunglasses to get. There are many upscale establishments that even promote couples and carry items for guys and girls to enjoy together.

*note, this post was written with straight couples in mind, but there are also plenty of toys for gay and lesbian (or bisexual) enjoyment as well!

For the first time I had a vibrator inserted in my anus by my mistress.I truely loved it.She has shown me her strapon that she uses on her husband.I expressed my desire for her to use it on me.I await anxiously!.My favorite is my master's leather cock ring[clips around balls and cock].Not that he has erection problem but keeps it ready for use in a heart beat.He never keeps it tight so he can wear it all evening because he knows I love it.We both give each other g-spot and prostate massages,but only with our fingers.We have seen massagers for this but prefer hands on so to speak and now spending on bondage gear,as we have a very small collections.Good Message

[kettlekorn]

They don't have my option on there... we haven't used sex toys but that's because we haven't bought them yet.