Curious rookies in need of help!!

[Kurious_cpl]

Hello,
First off let me say I love the service you provide, especially for those of us that are...well, less than experienced and a little shy about the subjects we are interested in. Ok, here's our situation, I am 30 years old, my wife is 21. We are very much in love but have faced many obstacles, and though we tried to deny it for a while, a lot of it was due to our age difference.(life experiences and views on topics due to our different age groups) Well, a while back things really came to blows emotionally and we were on the verge of a divorce. We have been together 5 years and married for almost 3.( Jan. 21 ) Looking back I see that or near catastrophy was just the wake up call we needed! We are COMPLETELY open and honet with each other and let nothing fester and build anymore with out being discused before it becomes a problem..I am rambling on about all this to get to the point that our relationship is doing AMAZING now! We have awsome communication, amazing sex when our schedules permitt (she works @ an outta town hospital and only come home 2-3 days a week, and i work in the medical field on 24 hour shifts. my wife is a non-practicing bisexual, meaning she hasnt been with a female in years. She is very attracted to women and has approached me a few months ago about bringing a third into our bed and possibly our relationship. After talking extensively we have decied we would like to have a third partner, But here is our problem..We have NO idea how to find or approach a female about this. We dont really know anyone in this lifestyle, and we live in a very small, very closeminded community. There are no clubs remotely near us, we have 5 small redneck and biker bars in our town. Nothing against them, I are one too..LOL. But with our professional positions, we cant just start asking around to find a playmate. How do we get started. We are both very eager. We actually playout our sexual playtime together as if there actually were another female with us. Please, can you help us?

[tankman101]

In a nutshell finding a compatible female for a threesome is very difficult in the best of circumstances. Its much easier to find another couple.

Check some of Dan&Jenns swinger videos.

Join a site like adult friend finder or SLS.

[DaniMarie]

First...I am always one to say...be careful with threesomes. Your relationship sounds like it is doing good now, but it seems scary that you have had so many problems in the past. Threesomes can make it all worse.

However, I have had a few (before I was married) where I was the "extra" girl. I joined couples who were on adult friend finder. I have several things to say. First, you should pay to be a part of the site because it will work a lot better for you then just a free membership. Second, do a lot of talking and make sure your wife is in charge. That will make it easier.