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06-08-2009, 02:28 PM
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Cheating on your swinging couple?
My husband and i have recently started to swing with other couples...we found this one couple that we really like. Is it weird to only want to be with them and not any other couple? Should we ask them to be with only us? I'm not sure if you are supposed to be with several different couples or if you can just stick to one?
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06-08-2009, 03:40 PM
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Swinging
Since i am not in a swinging couple situation. From what i am hearing sounds like you need to have some conversation with the coupleand see whats missing or what do feel they are wanting, as well as yourselves. Even though you have found couple you really like, are you sure your the couple for them. Then once again what are the true swinging couple rules to adhere to.
Best of luck
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06-23-2009, 09:18 PM
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Swinging doesn't come with mandatory rules. Each couple gets to make up the rules that work for them. You can sit down and talk about how you feel with the other couple and see what they are thinking or feeling. They may want to be exclusive as well or they may be looking for more then that. Be open to how they feel and be willing to let them do what works best for them. After all, each couple has to stick with what is best for them. If they aren't interested and you really want that type of relationship then keep looking, there are couples out there looking for one couple to play with.
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07-03-2009, 02:03 AM
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That sounds a bit like Polyamory to me.
There are no rules on what "you are suppose to do" it all depends what everyone wants or is looking to get out of the relationship. Polyamory implies commitment and dunno how the other couple feels about that. You are treading into an area that is different from "swinging". I know from my own perspective, we would reject that idea. We are not interested in some kind of exclusive relationship with another couple. All sorts of emotional baggage is going to come into play. Why is it you want to be with just this one couple? Why are you swinging to begin with? Are you seeking something that you feel is missing from your relationship? Last edited by tankman101; 07-03-2009 at 04:08 AM.
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