We were swinging, but

We had swung a few times with the neighbor, but my wife has seen the CB-6000 male chastity device and now she wants me to wear on. She says it would make her happy to know that I couldn't even masturbate without her aproving it. While the the thought of trying this is exciting I can't help feeling that she would ahve a few threesomes with the neighbors and I would miss out.
Should I go ahead and try it?

[Greg69Sheryl]

It sounds like your wife wants to turn you into a submissive cuckold. Plenty of couples enjoy this lifestyle, so there's nothing wrong with giving it a try. If you are truly worried about her running off and playing with the neighbors, let her know that you'd be willing to wear the chastity device as long as she agrees to avoid doing that. However, based on the way your phrased your question, our guess is that you are actually aroused by that possibility.

[Rachael559]

Originally Posted by Unregistered

We had swung a few times with the neighbor, but my wife has seen the CB-6000 male chastity device and now she wants me to wear on. She says it would make her happy to know that I couldn't even masturbate without her aproving it. While the the thought of trying this is exciting I can't help feeling that she would ahve a few threesomes with the neighbors and I would miss out.
Should I go ahead and try it?

You have to decide which you think you would enjoy more. Sort of the point of the chastity device is that yes, you will miss out. If you don't want to miss out, then tell her you're not comfortable with that arrangement and that you'd really prefer to fully participate in any swinging/lifestyle activities. If she wants to Cuckold you, in my opinion she needs to articulate that, not try and somehow trick you into it. Any good relationship is fully based on truth and honesty. If she can't be honest about what she is doing while you are wearing the chastity device, how can you trust her? EVEN if this is something you want to explore, you still have to have a partner/hotwife/cuckoldress that will be honest about what she's doing.

[Dan And Jennifer]

There's something incredibly arousing about being told when to have sex...

Did I just say that?

Hmmm. Now you guys will just have to guess who this is.

[K. in Cleveland]

Originally Posted by Dan And Jennifer

There's something incredibly arousing about being told when to have sex...

Did I just say that?

Hmmm. Now you guys will just have to guess who this is.

So this means that it could not have come from both of you...hmmm.. I'm just gonna bite my tongue... unless someone else wants to bite it for me?

[Dan And Jennifer]

One more thing on this one.

What makes you think that she wants to have a threesome with the neighbors - without you.

I'm thinking that we're not getting the whole story here.

Now from a dominance role, she may think it would be fun to make you watch her have sex with the neighbors while you sit there shackled.

[Rachael559]

Originally Posted by Dan And Jennifer

There's something incredibly arousing about being told when to have sex...

Did I just say that?

Hmmm. Now you guys will just have to guess who this is.

I'd swear I replied to this before but I HAVE to believe that it's Dan replying this way, as I can't believe it's Jennifer, while too many people will say it's stereotype of the 50's I think many women might feel like they are already told when they can and can't have sex, which is why I said I think it's Dan.
Hugs
Rachael

[OneDayAtATime]

Originally Posted by Unregistered

We had swung a few times with the neighbor, but my wife has seen the CB-6000 male chastity device and now she wants me to wear on. She says it would make her happy to know that I couldn't even masturbate without her aproving it. While the the thought of trying this is exciting I can't help feeling that she would ahve a few threesomes with the neighbors and I would miss out.
Should I go ahead and try it?

To even contemplate it,should tell you that it may be a turn on..Most men would be like," you're not telling me when to cum." if they're not open to it. I don't think most women would like that either.Thats a lot of power for one to have though. Do you expect her to do something sexually in return or has she already?


You need to discuss the ins and outs of this fantasy she has for you. When you try this,it could go a number of ways.

1.This may be just for ya'll two. She may want to cum first, then she unlocks it to finish you off or have you do it..

2. She could be using it as a turn on for you.IOW,build up so much sexual tension that when you two have sex,you ravish her.

3. She feels you're jacking off to much.

3. The one where she has decided she wants to fuck other people with or without you present. She wants to control and tame your male organ.

You need to find out her motives. Like whats been articulated already,its up to you.

If you do it and like it,great.You may have some submissive tendencies.Nothing wrong with that.

If you do it and don't like it. No harm no foul,unless she likes it to much and says you have to in order for the swinging to continue,. Then you got a problem.

You do need to elaborate,ok? There are those who do or have worn it. I hope they chime in to let you know what you're in for.

[OneDayAtATime]

I found this on another forum concerning this device.

I bought a CB6000 for my husband. It’s great to play with, but we don’t really use it for long periods of time. I have him put it on when I want him to focus on getting his work done on the computer and not get distracted by looking at pictures of me having sex and masturbating. It does wonders for keeping his attention on the task at hand.

Sometimes I wear it all day long at work and the fun goes all day with sexy text and phone calls. I have worn it for 3-4 days all day and night a couple of times. It’s fun to get all worked up for days on end and not be able to get “relief”, my only thoughts are to satisfy her, I just focus all that locked up sexual energy into orally pleasing her. Of course I want satisfaction, but I don’t get it and the headgame goes on for another day.

Finally, i have not worn my device long enough for a true behavioral change to occur (i wish!). My wife is too sensitive to my pain to allow that to occur. However, I believe that with prolonged wear, the male will have to alter his thought patterns to eliminate painful semi-erections and manage his inner arousal. Behavior modification is a wonderful and powerful thing!

There are those who willingly long for it. Its not for everybody, thats for sure.

[Grey]

Think of this another way to play... half the fun here can be just the exploring of what this form of intimate play can do for each of you. Be a little open minded, and then... have these discussions absolutely naked, so the both of you can see the reactions (involuntary or voluntary) that comes from 'all of you'.

The 'discovery' process here will probably find some hot times before the CB actually comes into the picture. Enjoy...