Webcam Sex?

[Rc...]

My girlfriend and i wanna try a threesome or swing, and were both kinda iffy about it and havent really found anyone who would be interested yet, but i thought maybe if we tried to webcam with other couples it would be able to eas us into the whole idea and would like to know if anyone out there would be willing to talk a little bit and help/play...?

[Lucia]

Although the idea of swinging or having a threesome is a novel idea you really need to think about the long term ramifications of such an occurance. Once you cross that line there is no going back to a normal relationship. You will forever be haunted with visions of your lover being pleasured by someone other than you. This will also break open any underlying fears and insecurities you may have as a person and as a couple. If you see your relationship as the "forever" kind I would rethink bringing anyone else into it. However , if this is just a fly by night " fun " relationship then more power to you.

With that said, I would say "no" to the webcam sex bit as with technology today, this could then be recorded and redistributed all over the internet later coming back to bite you in the butt when you least expect it. I would suggest joining a couples site such as Adultfriendfinder.com. This site allows you to list you're wants , likes and dislikes, etc. and allows you to chat with couples in your area, as well as having an "in" to the lifestyle " meet and greet" events in your area. If it is another female you are interested in finding then I would suggest your girlfriend going solo to a lesbian bar a few times to find a like minded woman. Never bring a friend into the equation as this brings a new set of complications into the mix. Always discuss what is allowed or not before hand. Have a " safe " word just in case one of you gets uncomfortable so you will be in sync . Have it occur at a neutral place and never bring a stranger to your home or vice versa. There are alot fo crazies out there. I would search in your area for swinger sites via the internet ,these places almost always have fun nights set up as well as a user friendly hotel where they are welcome and just see what happens. The don't force you to participate but it brings you into contact with like minded individuals. Always remember that your first priority is your partners needs and you should be fine! Good Luck! Hope this helps.

[seopositive2]

This is a very interesting find indeed. I will have to check it out when I get the time though. Thanks for the nice tips.