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Old 08-05-2009, 09:32 AM
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Default Why do men love threesomes???

I'm a guy, and I really want a threesome with my girlfriend and a female friend of ours. My girlfriend is partially open to it, but is still a bit insecure. She has been asking me why I want a threesome so bad, and I usually just answer "because its EVERY guys fanatsy!". But because I cant put a finger on it, what IS the reason so many guys want a girl-girl-guy threesome???
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Old 08-05-2009, 10:34 AM
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I think its because naturally in the past humans have had lots of sexual partners. That is just how the human race came to be. (no offense to religion)

If you really want to do that I suggest you guys talk about it a lot. Then finding a person is also going to be a problem. Usually one person feels left out during the ordeal. There is also the issue of emotions, having a third person is like adding them to your relationship.

I suggest you guys set up some ground rules before you go into this encounter. There is a lot of information on the forums about this. For example some people don't allow for kissing the other person.

I also wouldn't do anything until she is fully conferable with doing so. When you guys are finished. I suggest later that day or another day you talk about the whole ordeal. To get anything out of the air that needs to be so your relationship is till intact.

Hopefully this sends you in the right direction.
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Old 08-05-2009, 10:39 AM
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Great news! She said yes, for one time only, and we set ground rules with the other girl. Everything is set. But is there any type of reason that I could actually tell my girlfriend why I, and most men, want a threesome with another girl so bad?
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