Can You Get Your Ex Back With The Law Of Attraction? (Video)

One of the Biggest Law of Attraction Mistakes

The Universal Law of Attraction (LOA) is a very powerful force in our everyday lives. As human beings, we are very powerful attractors and can use this wonderful, God-given, power to attract or manifest more of what we want in life simply by paying attention to where we place our focus, thoughts, and desires.

One of the biggest mistakes that people make with the Law of Attraction is trying to control another person. For example, picturing your ex-taking you back is actually a form of trying to control his or her actions and feelings. You simply can’t control how another person feels or acts, only how you react to their feelings and actions.

Here’s a question from Barry who’s not quite sure how to apply this powerful concept in his own life…

Dear Dan and Jennifer, 

I’ m a 23 years old Taiwanese boy who goes to school in Vancouver BC. When I was 16, I met a girl in Taiwan. Pretty soon after we met, I had to leave Taiwan to return to school in Vancouver. We started a long distance relationship. She met another man in LA, and she overlapped me and him for a while. This was very heartbreaking for me, however I had no doubt in my mind about wanting her back. However, last year (after a 6 year relationship) she broke up with me again for the same reasons.

Since I have read The Secret, I understand the Law of Attraction is to focus on what you want, pretend this is really happening, and accept the fact that it is going to happen. After we broke up, I often pictured the scene of her begging me to take her back again, but I understand that you can never change another person with the Law of Attraction. Is it best me to just move on?

Thank you so much for your time.

–Barry 

Watch this short video for our thoughts on this very interesting question…

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Focus on What You Really Want 

Rather than focus on your ex and getting him or her back, focus on what you really want in a relationship and a partner who is good to you and loves you in return.

You need to stop focusing on your ex…

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  • I agree that the Law of Attraction has much power. The one thing I've always kept in mind is that after you leave (or lose someone) focus on yourself and who you want to be. If who you are or who you are meant to be doesn't not gain it's value from your relationship. If you and your mate just aren't compatible do you really want to get back together?
  • Allan Rosado
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    Hi, Dan and Jennifer. I'm just gonna jump right into it. My ex and I have broken up 3 times and now have an 8yo child. We have been apart for 4 years. In that time neither of us has gotten into anything serious with anyone else. I want her back and at some point she wants me back also. But Honestly. I'm keep messing my chances up. I've been trying to be unpredictable to someone who has known me for 15 years. But I can't seem to let go the negative feelings when I'm around her. I want to be happy and confident around her instead of weak and pathetic. She is currently seeing someone. And told me that she will be going out for her birthday with this guy because he is more fun. Then she said on my Birthday we'll go out. This alone really bothers me. I need to make this woman feel a burning desire to be with me. I need to stop making these mistakes. This is what's missing and we both know it. I took the time to see if this is the woman I want. The answer is yes. I want to live the dream and not just watch it pass slowly by. My confidence has been shaken to the core because the rejection I feel when I'm around her. What can I do to change this negative feeling inside of me and start making her feel that burning desire to be with me? When I watch the Dan and Jennifer videos I see how you 2 connect. This is what I want for me and my ex. The spark, that connection. Anything you can tell me will be useful.
  • Thats very true begging will only make you look desperate. and noone wants desperate. The best usually is to respect the breakup distance and then make that call that says " I agree we both need time to look at this from a distance and i respect your need for that. I just called to let you know that im ok with that but im also looking forward to a day we can sort things out and get together again". This might actually work for you very well when you need to get your ex back now.
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