Comments on: 7 Personality Traits You Need to Survive a Break-Up

By: Todd

Todd — Sun, 30 Mar 2008 21:50:09 +0000

Yea I agree with yo guys….and going through a break up now I can tell you that being independent and having a lofe goal is critical for me moving forward.

Todd Goldfarb
We The Change

By: Eddie Corbano

Eddie Corbano — Thu, 13 Dec 2007 13:56:59 +0000

Well said, Craig.

There is a proverb from the south of Europe that fits here: it says that two one-legged cannot walk a long road together by holding each other. A fulfilling long term relationship is only possible, if everyone is complete for himself.

Kathylynn, thank you for the kind words.

By: kathylynn

kathylynn — Thu, 13 Dec 2007 13:45:26 +0000

This is great advice. I have friends that have gone through awful breakups and this advice would really help.

By: Craig Harper

Craig Harper — Wed, 12 Dec 2007 23:13:05 +0000

Some people are so terrified of being alone that they will compromise themselves to the point of actually losing their identity. “I’ll be whatever you want me to be..” You’ve seen it. Maybe you’ve been it. Misery and frustration is always the result. It’s important (for many reasons) that we learn to be comfortable and secure on our own before we launch into a life partnership.