Unfortunately I think she’s probably being immature and doesn’t know how to end it with him.

I agree with Scott. People will be acting distant if he/she does not love the one any more. This is more possible than cheating. If cheating, maybe still love each other, just need some extra fun. Oh, that’s immoral. I saw a site that dedicated to short-term relationships (casualfriends.com/photo/hotbabe), more and more people like this. Though it maybe cheating, immoral and something like that.

It really sounds like Tyler’s girlfriend is probably up to something. From what he describes, shee seems to be acting in a manner which is hiding her “indiscretions”.

Anyway, I agree with your comments. Regardless of what she’s doing, the fact remains that she is acting a completely disrespectful manner to Tyler. Relationships NEED to be about communication and treating each other in a courteous manner.

Unfortunately I think she’s probably being immature and doesn’t know how to end it with him.

And maybe, she was just not comfortable expressing her own feelings so she criticized you for expressing yours.

Regardless of her reasons, you should not feel bad for expressing your feelings openly. Find someone who is open enough to listen and share in return.

OK so how do you approach her if every time you phrase things in terms of identifying your own feelings, she criticizes you for making “everything about you”? I knew a woman who had me walking on eggs all the time – no matter what I said or how I phrased it I was wrong… I guess that sort of answers my own question or does it?

Brian