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Here’s a great article from one of our featured authors, Janet Landers.
Janet is an astrologer and life coach who uses Universal Laws, including the Law of Attraction, in her teaching.
For over twenty years, Janet has offered her wisdom in both workshop and personal settings coast-to-coast.
In this incredibly touching and heart felt article, "Sacred Relationship", Janet tells us how to let go of our past and love ourselves first so that we might enjoy truly wonderful relationships with others.
Sacred Relationship
The twenty-first century has born its own brand of relationships. Computer dating and internet porn sites offer a myriad of ways to entertain those seeking love. Love is in the process of being redefined, yet it is the eternal yardstick for happiness.
Sacred relationship begins with the self.
Where are you in this regard?
Begin by assessing your strengths and your weaknesses. Be as honest as you can realizing that to get more of what you want, you have to be clear where you are. The art of Recapitulation involves revisiting one’s past in order to get clarity and be able to reside in the present moment with peace.
Just as Don Juan Mateus guided Carlos Castaneda in this venture, begin by remembering all you can remember about yourself in the context of relationship. Do not judge, stay in the memory, remember how you were feeling. This may take several attempts, include journaling, scripting, or talking aloud……just remember it all.
When you arrive at the present with your past memories, you are allowed to let go, and make peace with it all. No matter how dark it may have been in your view, it can only be resolved by putting grace around the past and owning it as a human experience.
Only when you have been able to clear these triggers of your subconscious, is one able to create a new script with the expectation of total freedom.
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Before you can love others, I believe you have to love thy self. Only then, can they love others to the best of their abilities…wow, kinda philosophic huh
I agree with you, Jane — if you don’t love yourself, warts and all with a willingness to work on what you’d like to change and to embrace what you don’t want to — then who else will?
And I agee with what you say, Janet. The only problem is your last few words … ” live by that code.”
Now THAT’s the hard part, right? We often make choices that don’t honor that code.
So I’d say, when you mess up, forgive yourself and vow to do it better the next time. No use beating yourself up for being human!
I just discovered this blog. Interesting topics ….
It sounds all good and beautiful but some incidents and some people are hard to swallow..
To me, this whole concept of “making peace with it” sounds far-fetched, and only a way to brainwash oneself.
I accept that some people are simply impossible and I don’t necessarily forgive everybody like some books tell me.
Just as much as love is part of life, despise is part of it as well, in my opinion.. in my humble, non-sugarcoated reality.
To add to that comment - the one thing I always do is to respect myself and love myself - I know who I am, I love and respect myself very much and i have a lot of pride, and I offer myself generously.
I find this thread interesting. I do practice forgiving myself every time I mess up, as Kat points out. I’m getting better at it.
As a psychotherapist who works with individuals to help them find themselves through healing past wounds, I really enjoyed this article. People usually struggle in their relationships when they feel there’s something wrong with them. When they’re able to get that they’re “ok” they begin to be open up to giving and receiving love… Lisa Brookes Kift, M.A., San Diego, CA. www.lisakifttherapy.com