Here’s a great article from one of our featured authors, Janet Landers.

Janet is an astrologer and life coach who uses Universal Laws, including the Law of Attraction, in her teaching.

For over twenty years, Janet has offered her wisdom in both workshop and personal settings coast-to-coast.

In this incredibly touching and heart felt article, “Sacred Relationship”, Janet tells us how to let go of our past and love ourselves first so that we might enjoy truly wonderful relationships with others.

Sacred Relationship

The twenty-first century has born its own brand of relationships. Computer dating and internet porn sites offer a myriad of ways to entertain those seeking love. Love is in the process of being redefined, yet it is the eternal yardstick for happiness.

Sacred relationship begins with the self.

Where are you in this regard?

Begin by assessing your strengths and your weaknesses. Be as honest as you can realizing that to get more of what you want, you have to be clear where you are. The art of Recapitulation involves revisiting one’s past in order to get clarity and be able to reside in the present moment with peace.

Just as Don Juan Mateus guided Carlos Castaneda in this venture, begin by remembering all you can remember about yourself in the context of relationship. Do not judge, stay in the memory, remember how you were feeling. This may take several attempts, include journaling, scripting, or talking aloud……just remember it all.

When you arrive at the present with your past memories, you are allowed to let go, and make peace with it all. No matter how dark it may have been in your view, it can only be resolved by putting grace around the past and owning it as a human experience.

Only when you have been able to clear these triggers of your subconscious, is one able to create a new script with the expectation of total freedom.

Next…

Own your body, for it is sacred. We live in a world of judgments. Think about this, nearly any one of us could choose to focus on what might be “wrong”, and have a pretty comprehensive list. It won’t get better, as one gets older either.

So, choose right now to see your divine self with all the extraneous anomalies as being the perfect “you”. Love your hair, your skin, teeth, shape, posture, and color…….for it is a blessing to have a body and live in this world. Be willing to see these “imperfections” as part of the human experience. Let go of comparisons.

Yes, this takes some work, but what better investment?

As you relax into yourself, begin to focus more on the feelings of happiness, contentment and joy. Imagine sharing these feelings, staying in the moment. Begin to daydream that special other who responds with caring and sensitivity, and appreciation for what you bring to the experience.

Honor yourself, love yourself, and get good at it. Establish a value system that defines you and live by that code.

“Love your neighbor as yourself.”

Begin with self.

Then let the real enjoyment of relationship begin!

Janet Landers is an astrologer and life coach who uses Universal Laws, including the Law of Attraction, in her teaching. For over twenty years, Janet has offered her wisdom in both workshop and personal settings coast-to-coast. For more information call 469-358-2595