What the World Needs Now, is Love, Sweet Love…

Own your body, for it is sacred. We live in a world of judgments. Think about this, nearly any one of us could choose to focus on what might be “wrong”, and have a pretty comprehensive list. It won’t get better, as one gets older either.

So, choose right now to see your divine self with all the extraneous anomalies as being the perfect “you”. Love your hair, your skin, teeth, shape, posture, and color…….for it is a blessing to have a body and live in this world. Be willing to see these “imperfections” as part of the human experience. Let go of comparisons.

Yes, this takes some work, but what better investment?

As you relax into yourself, begin to focus more on the feelings of happiness, contentment and joy. Imagine sharing these feelings, staying in the moment. Begin to daydream that special other who responds with caring and sensitivity, and appreciation for what you bring to the experience.

Honor yourself, love yourself, and get good at it. Establish a value system that defines you and live by that code.

“Love your neighbor as yourself.” 

Begin with self.

Then let the real enjoyment of relationship begin!  

Janet Landers is an astrologer and life coach who uses Universal Laws, including the Law of Attraction, in her teaching. For over twenty years, Janet has offered her wisdom in both workshop and personal settings coast-to-coast. For more information call 469-358-2595 

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  • As a psychotherapist who works with individuals to help them find themselves through healing past wounds, I really enjoyed this article. People usually struggle in their relationships when they feel there's something wrong with them. When they're able to get that they're "ok" they begin to be open up to giving and receiving love... Lisa Brookes Kift, M.A., San Diego, CA. www.lisakifttherapy.com
  • I find this thread interesting. I do practice forgiving myself every time I mess up, as Kat points out. I'm getting better at it.
  • To add to that comment - the one thing I always do is to respect myself and love myself - I know who I am, I love and respect myself very much and i have a lot of pride, and I offer myself generously.
  • It sounds all good and beautiful but some incidents and some people are hard to swallow..

    To me, this whole concept of "making peace with it" sounds far-fetched, and only a way to brainwash oneself.

    I accept that some people are simply impossible and I don't necessarily forgive everybody like some books tell me.

    Just as much as love is part of life, despise is part of it as well, in my opinion.. in my humble, non-sugarcoated reality.
  • I agree with you, Jane — if you don't love yourself, warts and all with a willingness to work on what you'd like to change and to embrace what you don't want to — then who else will?

    And I agee with what you say, Janet. The only problem is your last few words ... " live by that code."

    Now THAT's the hard part, right? We often make choices that don't honor that code.

    So I'd say, when you mess up, forgive yourself and vow to do it better the next time. No use beating yourself up for being human!

    I just discovered this blog. Interesting topics ....
  • Before you can love others, I believe you have to love thy self. Only then, can they love others to the best of their abilities...wow, kinda philosophic huh :)
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