5. The "You Can Create the Love Life of Your Dreams if You Choose to do So" Myth
If we believed this hype that so many of today’s New Age and self-help authors have claimed in their books, we would be ignoring our extensive empirical research, in which we’ve found that personal fate, karma, and free will do exist. This means that you have the free will to create what you want, but only within the confines of your fate or destiny (same concepts, by the way).
You have free will to make the most of your love life, but you can’t "create" an ideal soul mate relationship if a soul mate isn’t destined to show up in your life and also be attracted to and
compatible with you.
6. The "Your Soul Mate is the Love of Your Life" Myth
One of your more compatible soul mates may possibly be the love of your life, but you don’t know that for sure until the last day of your life.
7. The "A soul Mate Relationship Failed if it Didn’t Last a Lifetime" Myth
Based on our findings, all relationships have destined beginnings and endings. Some are meant to be short-term (even if the couple chooses to stay together as, essentially, roommates), and some are meant to be long-term. In our opinion, all relationships, no matter how long they last, are successful because of what you gain from each one. Whether or not you learned what you were meant to from the experience, not how many years you were together, is of most importance.
8. The "Waiting for a Soul Mate to Come Back" Myth
It’s not easy to let go when your partner wants to leave the relationship. But 90% of the time they are not coming back; they’ve already made up their mind and it’s pointless to try to manipulate the situation. It’s best to stop waiting for them, accept that it’s over, be grateful for what you experienced, and move on.
You have a choice; resist and generate more unhappiness, or accept what is and let go. Even if they do decide to return to you some day, letting go now will not interfere with that. In fact, it will allow you to see the situation clearly and if it’s really in your highest interest to accept them back into your life.
9. The "I Should Meet my Soul Mate by Age 25 (or 30 or 40 or Whatever Age)" Myth
It would be nice if you could just apply for and receive your soul mate at a certain age, much like you do a driver’s license. The reality is that some people are meant to meet a more compatible person or people early in life, and some must have a little more patience.
We are able to determine, by looking at someone’s comprehensive numerology and astrology charts and, or through an intuitive reading, when they are likely to meet that special person or special people, and everyone’s timing is different.
Considering the above soul mate myths and viewing your love life with fresh perspective should lead to more happiness, and perhaps in a different way than you first thought.
If you’re single and would like to meet a compatible soul mate, the best approach is to let go of the past, accept and learn to like being single, and remain open to people who don’t fit every one of your requirements.
If you’re involved and would like to improve your relationship, let go of the past, accept your partner as they are, and do what you can to make the most of the relationship.
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Second thoughts, in this perspective, need to have actual answers. Professional advice may be warranted....
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