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Attracting the Relationship You Want Instead of the One You Left

Relationship Advice - Attracting the Relationship You Want Instead of the One You Left

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Love Yourself First! 

In order to use the Law of Attraction deliberately to create a wonderful relationship you need to spend some time alone, getting comfortable with just yourself.  Find things that you love to do and do them just for fun, don’t try to meet anyone, just get happy with yourself.  And while you are doing this you can consider just what you want in a relationship. 

Stop focusing on the things that you disliked in your previous relationship and the things that didn’t work and focus on the good and wonderful things that you want. 

You’ll get to a point where you will know you are focusing on the good things you want to attract because you will have good feelings, happy feelings and when you are really ready to attract someone new and wonderful who is right for you, you may even be able to look back on your past relationships with thoughts of appreciation.  That person may not have been the one for you but they did get you to where you are and where you are is the only place you can attract the person who will be right for you and the relationship that you really want.   

We all want to attract a loving, wonderful person to co-create a magnificent future with.  Change your focus,  think about and really feel inside what it is that you want in a relationship, then let it go, don’t dwell on it.  Have faith that it will happen for you. 

Before you know it you will have attracted the one from your dreams.  

Karen Lynch is a Law of Attraction and Personal Development Expert and founder of the empowering and inspiring website www.livethepower.com. You can read more of her inspirational and motivational writings at the Live the Power blog at http://www.livethepower.com/blog

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2 Responses to “Attracting the Relationship You Want Instead of the One You Left”

  1. Aaron - Personal Development Partners on November 14th, 2007 1:31 pm

    Focusing on the things that we are “used to” is easy, which is why we tend to keep doing it, even if it does not bring us happiness.

    In order to change your life, you need to change your life! That starts with your own thoughts and feelings, and has nothing to do with the other person.

    Great article! :)

  2. Alex Liu on November 20th, 2007 12:47 am

    Great article. I didn’t really realize I can apply Law of Attraction in such a way.

    It’s true and very important to clear what is in the past relationship that stop ourself to repeat it again. Thanks

    Alex Liu

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