http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/love-relationships/relationship-advice/could-your-need-for-control-be-ruining-your-relationship/ Love & Sex. Videos, Tips & Advice from Ask Dan & Jennifer Sun, 31 May 2009 18:06:15 -0400 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/love-relationships/relationship-advice/could-your-need-for-control-be-ruining-your-relationship/comment-page-1/#comment-29792 Melody Tue, 11 Dec 2007 20:06:13 +0000 http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/love-relationships/relationship-advice/could-your-need-for-control-be-ruining-your-relationship/#comment-29792 Well, it's only controlling if you insist that your partner tell you that he sees things the same way. If you won't rest until he/she says they agree with you then you are being controlling. I'm all for opinions, its how we define who we are. But trying to make someone else comply with our version of the world is being controlling. Letting ou partners have their opinion and agreeing to disagree means allowing yourself to have a relationship with who they really are rather than who you want them to be! Well, it’s only controlling if you insist that your partner tell you that he sees things the same way. If you won’t rest until he/she says they agree with you then you are being controlling. I’m all for opinions, its how we define who we are. But trying to make someone else comply with our version of the world is being controlling. Letting ou partners have their opinion and agreeing to disagree means allowing yourself to have a relationship with who they really are rather than who you want them to be!

]]> http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/love-relationships/relationship-advice/could-your-need-for-control-be-ruining-your-relationship/comment-page-1/#comment-29790 Jenny Tue, 11 Dec 2007 17:12:31 +0000 http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/love-relationships/relationship-advice/could-your-need-for-control-be-ruining-your-relationship/#comment-29790 I don't know if I like to keep control but I do like to make sure my opinions are known and listened to. That usually starts a fight too. xD But at least I had my voice! I don’t know if I like to keep control but I do like to make sure my opinions are known and listened to. That usually starts a fight too. xD But at least I had my voice!

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