Comments on: Getting Married? 6 Reasons Why You Need Pre-Marriage Counseling http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/love-relationships/relationship-advice/getting-married-6-reasons-why-you-need-pre-marriage-counseling/ Love & Sex. Videos, Tips & Advice from Ask Dan & Jennifer Sun, 31 May 2009 18:06:15 -0400 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: Jenny http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/love-relationships/relationship-advice/getting-married-6-reasons-why-you-need-pre-marriage-counseling/comment-page-1/#comment-35551 Jenny Fri, 07 Mar 2008 00:20:46 +0000 http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/love-relationships/relationship-advice/getting-married-6-reasons-why-you-need-pre-marriage-counseling/#comment-35551 I didn't get a wedding. I was married by a judge in a court room. :( I didn’t get a wedding. I was married by a judge in a court room. :(

]]> By: Man http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/love-relationships/relationship-advice/getting-married-6-reasons-why-you-need-pre-marriage-counseling/comment-page-1/#comment-33928 Man Mon, 11 Feb 2008 13:45:59 +0000 http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/love-relationships/relationship-advice/getting-married-6-reasons-why-you-need-pre-marriage-counseling/#comment-33928 Pre-marriage counseling is probably a good idea, but I would say choosing the right partner is a less costly endeavor. It's not really that hard either. You just have to ask a few questions: 1. Are you and your girl bonded by a common goal? It has to be a significant goal, now. 2. After you take away every superficial quality from your girl, do you still want to share your life with her? 3. Does you relationship with this person motivate your strengths and make you acquire new strengths? Because, if it motivates you weaknesses and vice versa, you’re on the wrong track. 4. Does this relationship harmonize with the original life goals that you had before the relationship? If it derails you from your dreams and expectations in life, you’re on the wrong track. If and ONLY if all four answers are yes, are you in love with your girl, and therefore ready to get married. Sincerely, Man @ MansGuidance.com Pre-marriage counseling is probably a good idea, but I would say choosing the right partner is a less costly endeavor. It’s not really that hard either.

You just have to ask a few questions:

1. Are you and your girl bonded by a common goal? It has to be a significant goal, now.
2. After you take away every superficial quality from your girl, do you still want to share your life with her?
3. Does you relationship with this person motivate your strengths and make you acquire new strengths? Because, if it motivates you weaknesses and vice versa, you’re on the wrong track.
4. Does this relationship harmonize with the original life goals that you had before the relationship? If it derails you from your dreams and expectations in life, you’re on the wrong track.

If and ONLY if all four answers are yes, are you in love with your girl, and therefore ready to get married.

Sincerely,
Man @ MansGuidance.com

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