How Do We Keep the “New” Feeling and Not Get Too Comfortable? (Video)

In new relationships, there is the "new" feeling that everyone loves.

There’s a scientific explanation for it.  It’s a chemical released by the brain that gives us those warm, fuzzy feelings when we first meet someone new and the relationship gets off to a great start.

Unfortunately, those "new" feelings tend to wear off, especially when the relationship isn’t new anymore. How can you keep the "new" feeling alive, even after your relationship has passed the "mature" mark?

Dear Dan and Jennifer,

 

My girlfriend and I have been seeing each other for 3 years now.  We were both virgins when we started dating. Well, about a year ago. I caught her seeing another guy.  We broke up but still talked and remained friends. She went through 3 other guys after that and had sex with every one of them. I told her to take it slow with every guy she dated.  After a while I asked her why she was rushing into bed with each guy she dated.  She told me she was excited to have this "new feeling".  This worries me considering we have been back together for a month after working things out.  

 

So my question is how do I keep this new feeling with her so she doesn’t find some one else again?

 

Seth, Michigan

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