Getting Sloppy in Relationships

Sometimes, in our relationships, we take each other for granted without meaning to and get sloppy.  We expect to be forgiven for being human, needy, melancholy, even boring.  That’s all right.  But if you want to turn up the juice in your relationship, a quick look back to what made you juicy when you were dating can give you just what you need.

Try striking a pose once in awhile!  Pay attention to how you walk, stand, and sit around each other.

Ladies, if having a wiggle in your walk got his attention in the first place, bring that thing back around!  Gents, you know that stance thing some of you do?  You stand there resting on one hip with your opposite hand in the pocket of your jeans with, maybe, your thumb and little finger hanging outside the pocket.  Your shoulders are relaxed and your chest is prominent, while your attitude says, “Here I am.”

Bring those confidence indicators into the home place and keep the home fires burning!

Confident People Enjoy Each Other’s Company

Tell each other stories and jokes meant to entertain.  Confident people enjoy each other’s company.  They trust themselves to behave well and have good intentions.  They also have the ego strength to handle it when toes are stepped on by accident.

Be present to one another the way you were in the beginning, when the fact that you held his or her attention stoked the fire of your confidence, building it even more!

Initiate Sex

Spontaneous sex exudes confidence and communicates you are hot for each other!  With the differences between men and women on the one hand and simple personality differences on the other, some are resistant to spontaneous sex.

If that’s you, then you hold the ace!  Initiating love making or being highly receptive for a change the next time it is offered communicates confidence in yourself and confidence in your love.  Both are incredibly attractive!

Plan an Exciting Date Night

Make a date night more than dinner and a movie. Do something special that makes you feel like a pair of VIP’s out in the world to be seen and admired.  Show off your love and the sparkle between the two of you.

I know a couple who love to high five each other in public when their conversation takes that groove where they finish each other’s sentences and they are proud to be together.  They know it draws attention to them, putting their romance on display.  It builds their confidence and the sexual energy between them.

Take an Interest in Others

Confident people take an interest in others, which definitely turns people on and can still turn your partner on!  Occasionally, really turn your full attention on your lover as he or she is speaking.

Turn your body towards them, give them plenty of eye contact, and show them genuine interest so that the expressions on your face match where your lover is coming from.  Be with him or her the way you were in the beginning.

Be that confident and watch your romance ignite again!

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