Comments on: Is He Really Over His Ex-Girlfriend? How Do I Know for Sure?

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Mon, 19 Mar 2007 03:32:49 +0000

[...] Is he really over his ex-girlfriend? How do I know for sure? [...]

By: Jeff Kee

Jeff Kee — Mon, 19 Mar 2007 03:21:41 +0000

I can kind of relate to that guy’s situation… some feelings from previous relationships are hard to get by, and it is possible, from my personal experience, that we date some girls just as replacements but in our minds there’s somebody else as #1.

I choose not to be in a relationship right now because it would not be fair, it would not be responsible for me to do so.. I’d rather wait for somebody that TOTALLY grabs my mind and gives me the same or better chemistry than my ex.

By: J

Sat, 24 Feb 2007 05:43:54 +0000

Girl, make up YOUR mind!

You are correct to conclude that if she came a calling that 1st year, he’d dump you for her. In fact, if she came a calling tomorrow he’d probably go racing back.

The fact that he showered her with flowers and etc that first year and has never given you a thing indicates that he’s sticking with you ’cause getting a replacement is a pain for most guys and what the heck, you’ll do ( for now ).

Sorry, honey but you were not his Number 1 then, you’re not today and you won’t be tomorrow…It’s not you ( unless you stick with him)…move on ’cause you deserve better.