Comments on: Long Distance Relationships – Can They Really Work? http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/love-relationships/relationship-advice/long-distance-relationships-can-they-really-work/ Love & Sex. Videos, Tips & Advice from Ask Dan & Jennifer Sun, 31 May 2009 18:06:15 -0400 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: Rene Kriest http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/love-relationships/relationship-advice/long-distance-relationships-can-they-really-work/comment-page-1/#comment-221 Rene Kriest Sat, 27 Jan 2007 03:16:20 +0000 http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/relationship-advice/long-distance-relationships-can-they-really-work/#comment-221 "Dan and I have an agreement that if we are ever interested in someone else, we’ll talk about it and if it seems like the right thing to do, then so be it. Isn’t it a little selfish to keep our partner from being happy, just to satisfy our own selfish desires?" What´s "selfish" about that? Both share different values. Someone wants exclusivity the other one wants some affairs during the off-time. If the girl feeld uncomfortable with this it is ok to break up. Your comittment reflect your values. Obviously other don´t. ;) “Dan and I have an agreement that if we are ever interested in someone else, we’ll talk about it and if it seems like the right thing to do, then so be it. Isn’t it a little selfish to keep our partner from being happy, just to satisfy our own selfish desires?”

What´s “selfish” about that? Both share different values. Someone wants exclusivity the other one wants some affairs during the off-time.

If the girl feeld uncomfortable with this it is ok to break up.

Your comittment reflect your values. Obviously other don´t. ;)

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