Marriage – Just a Legal Contract or a Real Commitment?

What is the meaning of marriage today?

We believe that marriage today is little more than a piece of paper these days – BUT not for the reasons that you may think.

Our frustration lies in the fact that many people seem to treat the contract of marriage like the contract on their car. They lock in the interest rate, buy the car, and then rarely even bother to change the oil or wash the car…

Corporations give certain privileges to people who hold this piece of paper (only the one sanctioned by the government) while refusing to acknowledge or accept other definitions, perfectly valid definitions, of marriage.

Getting married shouldn’t be like petitioning to get a local building permit, getting a government inspector to sign off that your plans are up to his specific codes.

The separation of church and state no longer seems to exist – making marriage more of a political statement than a real commitment!

Here’s a great article that we found on Netscape today that explains the subtle yet very important differences between a contract and true commitment: 

"Till death do us part, contract or covenant?"

And on the topic of separation of church and state (or rather the sad lack thereof), check out these recent articles:

Then leave a comment below and tell us where YOU stand on this very controversial issue!

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  • We live in a world where Marriage is the object, not the relationship. The wedding ceremony, the paperwork and the honeymoon should be something that supplements the great relationship you have, rather than one that creates it or seals the deal.

    One of my highschool teachers (whom I respected a lot) told me these words : "Seduction is an ongoing process."
  • Having been married myself for 14 years, my best advice to a new couple considering tying the knot is "Picture yourself with this person in 20 years. What will you be talking about? What will your finances look like? Will you have anything in common after the excitement of a new relationship has faded? What about when he or she finds out I am _____________? "

    My wife Kim and I asked those very questions about our relationship. We call it the 20 year decision. If you can heart to heart truthfully and honestly say "Yes in 20 years this is going to be working" Then you probably have a pretty good shot of making it.
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