Help! I’m Pregnant and He Wants Me to Choose Him or the Baby! (Video)

" It’s me or the baby!"

Believe it or not, many women are faced with the need to choose between a man or a baby, and it’s a tough decision. 

It involves weighing all the possible outcomes of each scenario as well as moral beliefs and what you actually want. 

If you find yourself in this situation, the decision is one that only you can make for yourself.

Dear Dan and Jennifer,

 

Hi, I am 26 and my partner is 46. We have been together on and off for 3 years. I am only his second relationship and he says he has steered clear from relationships because he didn’t want children.

 

He does not like them and despises the fact he would be financially responsible for the next 18 years. I have a 5 year old son and he gets on great with him so I cannot understand why he doesn’t want his own.

 

This has always been okay until I find out I am 6 weeks pregnant. He wants me to choose between him and the baby and said I can’t have both. I want this child. Do you think a man will change his mind once his child is here? Surely he will have some kind of feeling won’t he? Or am I faced with being a single parent?

 

- Emma, United Kingdom

Wait! Give this Video 5 Stars and Subscribe Today so you don’t miss a single video.

A Very Difficult Choice

Page: 1 2

MySpace Digg Yahoo Buzz Save on Delicious Submit to Stumbleupon Share/Save/Bookmark

Dan and Jennifer are the Founders and Senior Editors of AskDanAndJennifer.com, which has been called "the best and most popular Love and Sex advice column on the Internet today". Their videos are some of the most popular videos on YouTube. Don't forget to ask your dating, love, and sex questions in the Ask Dan and Jennifer - Love, & Sex Forums. You should Fan Dan & Jennifer on Facebook and Follow them on Twitter!

Take A Fun Sex Quiz

"Think You Understand Female Orgasms?"

Take The Orgasm Quiz And Find Out The Top 25 Female Orgasm Tips That You Can Use Tonight To Make Her Scream For More.

   

"Think You Know How To Give A Great Blow Job?"

Take The Blow Job Quiz And Find Out The Top 25 Blow Job Tips That You Can Use Tonight To Make Him Scream For More.

   

Check Out These Helpful Resources You May Like...





See More Recommended Resources »
Click on the slide!

Love & Marriage:

Don’t Let The Passion Fade!

Passion is not to be confused with love, but it still is an important part of a relationship – and it’s important to understand WHY it’s important! Because...

Read more...
Click on the slide!

Love & Marriage:

Sustainable Relationships

If you have had a few relationships you know what I mean by “sustainability,” especially ones that have been a source of pain or suffering to some degree. (Some of...

Read more...
Click on the slide!

Love & Marriage:

7 Ways To Tell If Your Friends Are True

I grew up with my mother telling me I was lucky if I could count all my real friends on one hand! Of course, I didn’t listen then but it occurred to me after a...

Read more...
Click on the slide!

Love & Marriage:

Pre-Wedding Jitters Vs. Second Thoughts

The ring has been chosen and placed on the bride-to-be’s left hand, a symbolic representation of the circle of love that will follow and is accompanied later by the...

Read more...
Click on the slide!

Love & Marriage:

What Gives A Woman Sex Appeal?

Recently I ran across a fellow relationship coach’s online sales copy for a membership site she offers to women.  It promised all kinds of yummy things.  Better sex,...

Read more...
Click on the slide!

Love & Marriage:

The Problem With Pleasure

The problem with pleasure is nothing…except the interpretation we bring to it.  Sometimes I think the only other topic with more confusion around it is that of money...

Read more...
Click on the slide!

Love & Marriage:

Letterman Scandal Shines Light On Serial Adulterers

As news broke recently about David Letterman’s admitted relationships with women who worked for him, it points again to the fact that people in the spotlight tend...

Read more...