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Help! I’m Pregnant and He Wants Me to Choose Him or the Baby! (Video)

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" It’s me or the baby!"

Believe it or not, many women are faced with the need to choose between a man or a baby, and it’s a tough decision. 

It involves weighing all the possible outcomes of each scenario as well as moral beliefs and what you actually want. 

If you find yourself in this situation, the decision is one that only you can make for yourself.

Dear Dan and Jennifer,

 

Hi, I am 26 and my partner is 46. We have been together on and off for 3 years. I am only his second relationship and he says he has steered clear from relationships because he didn’t want children.

 

He does not like them and despises the fact he would be financially responsible for the next 18 years. I have a 5 year old son and he gets on great with him so I cannot understand why he doesn’t want his own.

 

This has always been okay until I find out I am 6 weeks pregnant. He wants me to choose between him and the baby and said I can’t have both. I want this child. Do you think a man will change his mind once his child is here? Surely he will have some kind of feeling won’t he? Or am I faced with being a single parent?

 

- Emma, United Kingdom

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