http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/love-relationships/relationship-advice/what-are-you-really-fighting-about-it-may-not-be-what-you-think/ Love & Sex. Videos, Tips & Advice from Ask Dan & Jennifer Sun, 31 May 2009 18:06:15 -0400 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/love-relationships/relationship-advice/what-are-you-really-fighting-about-it-may-not-be-what-you-think/comment-page-1/#comment-31753 Craig Harper Wed, 16 Jan 2008 04:25:49 +0000 http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/love-relationships/relationship-advice/what-are-you-really-fighting-about-it-may-not-be-what-you-think/#comment-31753 2. Listening - Ironically, some of the best communicators don't actually talk that much. Some people mistake verbal diarrhoea for effective communication. We know that the vast majority of communication (93%) is non-verbal, so why do we feel compelled to talk so much? I've had many productive one hour meetings with people where I've said literally fifty words, while they've talked non-stop. 2. Listening – Ironically, some of the best communicators don’t actually talk that much. Some people mistake verbal diarrhoea for effective communication. We know that the vast majority of communication (93%) is non-verbal, so why do we feel compelled to talk so much? I’ve had many productive one hour meetings with people where I’ve said literally fifty words, while they’ve talked non-stop.

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