Dating and Relationship Advice – Can You Use the Law of Attraction to Find True Love?

Have you ever noticed that when you start thinking about buying a new car, you start to see that car everywhere you go? This happens to all of us on both a very small and very large scale. For our purposes, we are talking about the very common idea that our "thoughts create our reality".

Now, you may be thinking…

"Wait, this sounds really weird. I’ve never heard of this stuff before, so it must be bogus." Hold that thought for just a minute… If you’re not already in the perfect relationship and your life isn’t already exactly as you want it to be, then keep reading. This very short article could just change your life for the better.

So what is the Law of Attraction? Simply put it is a Universal Law that says we will attract into our lives the things that we focus our attention on, whether it is positive or negative. Whether you are aware of it or not, every thought you have, every emotion you feel, everything you hear and read, affects your reality.

So what does that have to do with dating and relationships?

By truly understanding what you want from a relationship and applying some very basic Law of Attraction principles, you will ensure that you get what you truly desire. It is important to understand exactly what physical traits, behaviors, values, beliefs, and interests are important to you so that you can focus on what you want in your relationship instead of what you don’t want.

Remember, you will get what you focus on.

Many times, people will go from one failed relationship to another without giving any thought whatsoever to why or how their relationships keep failing. Even better, they over correct and end up in another relationship that fails for similar, yet opposite extreme reasons.

"If you’re like I was, you have no idea what you really want
from your next relationship – only it should be completely different from
the last one that failed so miserably!"

I certainly knew what I didn’t want – at least from the relationship that just ended. Wouldn’t it have been great if I would have taken the time to think about all of the failed relationships and combined all that heartache into one clear idea of what I did and did not want in a relationship? I could have saved myself a few swings of the pendulum.

How do I ‘Attract’ the perfect relationship for me?

I’m going to show you a real quick and simple way to Attract the exact person that you are looking for – Your dream date!

Take out a piece of paper and write down everything you want in your perfect relationship. What is he or she like? How do they look, smell, talk? What kinds of things will you do together? How do you feel when you’re around them? Really get into this and take the time to write down every detail. It’ll be well worth it in the end.

Most people never take this step of writing down what they want and yet it is the single most important step in finding the partner of their dreams.

"Do you know that by simply writing down what you want, you increase your chances of getting it by 80%!"

Just think about that for a minute…

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  • I feel like this is what Oprah and The Secret are constantly talking about! But it is true that if you set your mind to positive and thinking about what you want in a relationship that you will attract it.
  • caliaroze
    This is a nice article! The problem I always had was that what I thought I wanted was a picture of what I already had that didn't work out. Once I cleared that desire of wanting to prove that I could make it work with someone who wasn't right for me to begin with, the right type of people started to present themselves!
  • Hey Caliaroze, too cool, thanks for sharing that!
  • Well like with Everything that's coming into your life you are attracting into your life. And it's attracted by virtue of the images you're holding in your mind. It's what you're thinking. Whatever is going on in your mind you are attracting to you.

    Few deep things on this matter:)

    Warmly

    Thor
  • BJ
    I thought you and your readers might be interested in this...
    The Oprah broadcast of "The Secret" will be February 8th. Also, it will be followed by an International Law of
    Attraction Teleconference. If you want more info go to http://www.lawofattractionteleconference.com.
    Also, the more posts that Oprah gets on her message boards about a particular topic, the more inclined she is to
    repeat the topic. So go to www.oprah.com and find the message board for “The Secret” to let her know that you
    want more of the same!
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