Friends? Lovers? Pick One! – The One That Got Away… (Video)

So many men are afraid to approach a woman and ask her out… to make that first move

Help! How can I escape the dreaded friend zone?

Of course, sometimes men get up the nerve to talk to women they like, but not quite to ask them out. So they become friends. And if they’re not careful, they STAY just friends… sliding down the slippery slope of the friend zone. 

But here’s the real gem. Women will usually drop plenty of hints and innuendos, encouraging men to take that first step… to break the ice and ask them out. All you have to do is pay attention.

So don’t just sit there hoping for something to magically happen on it’s own. Take control of your own destiny. Talk to her and see where it goes!

Caution! Will you REALLY be happy just being her friend? 

Then again, be prepared for whatever comes. If she’s not interested in a romantic relationship at the time, you have to decide if you would be truly want to be friends just to be close to her, of if it’s better to move on. 

If so, then it’s worth a shot. Otherwise, do yourself and her a favor and move on. But remember, she may only be willing to be friends.

The secret – act out of love, not out of the fear of rejection

Every decision we make in life fundamentally comes down to one of two major motivators: love of fear.

When you take action, be open and completely at peace with whatever the outcome will be. Don’t dread the fact that she may possibly (for whatever reason) not be interested in a relationship with you at this time, and whatever you do – don’t be judgmental of her response. Accept yourself and her for where you are at this point in your lives.

Missed opportunities for love

We’ve all been there at one time or another in our lives. An amazing opportunity shows itself, and for some reason or another we don’t act. And by the time we decide to take action, the evaporates into thin air. That’s so frustrating! 

Is that missed love opportunity gone forever? 

Whether you’re talking about love, business, or money, opportunity is all about timing AND the courage to ACT. If you don’t seize the opportunity when it’s hot and fresh, then you may as well come to terms with the fact that you’re going to miss out. Chalk it up to lessons learned and wisdom gained, and move on. 

BUT…

Page: 1 2

MySpace Digg Yahoo Buzz Save on Delicious Submit to Stumbleupon Share/Save/Bookmark

Dan and Jennifer are the Founders and Senior Editors of AskDanAndJennifer.com, which has been called "the best and most popular Love and Sex advice column on the Internet today". Their videos are some of the most popular videos on YouTube. Don't forget to ask your dating, love, and sex questions in the Ask Dan and Jennifer - Love, & Sex Forums. You should Fan Dan & Jennifer on Facebook and Follow them on Twitter!

Take A Fun Sex Quiz

"Think You Understand Female Orgasms?"

Take The Orgasm Quiz And Find Out The Top 25 Female Orgasm Tips That You Can Use Tonight To Make Her Scream For More.

   

"Think You Know How To Give A Great Blow Job?"

Take The Blow Job Quiz And Find Out The Top 25 Blow Job Tips That You Can Use Tonight To Make Him Scream For More.

   

Check Out These Helpful Resources You May Like...





See More Recommended Resources »
Click on the slide!

Love & Marriage:

Don’t Let The Passion Fade!

Passion is not to be confused with love, but it still is an important part of a relationship – and it’s important to understand WHY it’s important! Because...

Read more...
Click on the slide!

Love & Marriage:

Sustainable Relationships

If you have had a few relationships you know what I mean by “sustainability,” especially ones that have been a source of pain or suffering to some degree. (Some of...

Read more...
Click on the slide!

Love & Marriage:

7 Ways To Tell If Your Friends Are True

I grew up with my mother telling me I was lucky if I could count all my real friends on one hand! Of course, I didn’t listen then but it occurred to me after a...

Read more...
Click on the slide!

Love & Marriage:

Pre-Wedding Jitters Vs. Second Thoughts

The ring has been chosen and placed on the bride-to-be’s left hand, a symbolic representation of the circle of love that will follow and is accompanied later by the...

Read more...
Click on the slide!

Love & Marriage:

What Gives A Woman Sex Appeal?

Recently I ran across a fellow relationship coach’s online sales copy for a membership site she offers to women.  It promised all kinds of yummy things.  Better sex,...

Read more...
Click on the slide!

Love & Marriage:

The Problem With Pleasure

The problem with pleasure is nothing…except the interpretation we bring to it.  Sometimes I think the only other topic with more confusion around it is that of money...

Read more...
Click on the slide!

Love & Marriage:

Letterman Scandal Shines Light On Serial Adulterers

As news broke recently about David Letterman’s admitted relationships with women who worked for him, it points again to the fact that people in the spotlight tend...

Read more...