Is It EVIL to Say I Love You with No Intention of Getting Married? (Video)
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I love you! Love you too! I love you more! No, I love you more!
AAAAAhhhh! Stop it! You hear it every day… people casually throw these magical words around like there was no tomorrow. Sometimes it’s a replacement for "talk to you later" when you’re going to hang up… "Luv you. Love you too."
Sure, it’s very important to express your feelings to those close to you, to let them know you love them, cherish them, enjoy their company. But what does all this constant "I love you" REALLY mean? What ARE YOU getting yourself into?
Here’s a question from Lee in Ontario. She’s found herself saying "I love you" to her boyfriend more and more lately, and suddenly she’s feeling unsure and uneasy about it. Is she actually misleading him?
Dear Dan and Jennifer,
I am in a 6 month relationship. He says I love you I say I love you back. He says it more I say it more.
Yes we are both in love with each other.
If you tell someone you love them a lot, are they going to expect you to marry them? Am I leading him on by telling him I love him - I do. But will I marry him I don’t know. Is it evil to tell someone you love them under these thoughts?
– Lee in Ontario
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Does "I love you" mean "I want to marry you"?
NO!!! Love and marriage are two very, very different things. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with getting married, but there’s also no reason whatsoever to rush into it….
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