SUBSCRIBEGot Porn? What Are Some Great Erotic Movies to Get HER in the Mood?
Fact is most women aren’t turned on by the hard core stuff you see on Pay-Per-View and the Playboy channel…
The hard core stuff may work for the guys, but chances are it’ll do little or nothing for her. She most likely wants something with a little more warm up time and some intellectual stimulation, with a little slow seduction mixed in.
And I think most guys will agree that it’s well worth the extra time to get their partner as revved up as they are.
Certainly there’s lots of adult live video available online, much of it free on sites like Sizzling Cams (warning: adult).
There’s something to be found for every imaginable sex fantasy and fetish out there.
But how about finding something different… some hot steamy sex movies that will get you both excited and ready for a memorable night of hot, passionate sexual adventure?
The Question
My wife had suggested watching porn together to get her excited before having sex. I thought it was a great idea, but I had a hard time selecting a video that isn’t too raunchy or distasteful… do you have any recommendations?
The Answer
Fact is hard core porn doesn’t really get women excited and in the mood. It’s just a little too over the top for most women. For this reason a lot of men think women don’t like watching sex movies. Nothing could be further from the truth - women just have slightly different tastes.
So why not try a different twist? How about some steamy erotic movies that will get you both excited and ready for a memorable night of hot, passionate sexual adventure?
Sexy, Erotic Thrillers
There are quite a few options in the erotic thriller category, many of which are truly good quality movies that include a real plot and real characters with depth - the kind you can actually relate to.
An erotic thriller should have the key ingredients to get you both going in the right direction: sexual attraction and lust, a little danger and excitement, sexual intrigue or forbidden passions, and slow seduction.
Here are some of our favorite hot erotic thrillers
- 9 1/2 Weeks
- Another 9 1/2 Weeks
- Wild Orchid
- Basic Instinct
- Sliver (Unrated Edition)
- Two Moon Junction
Start with these and see what happens
Get a couple of these and plan to stay in for a hot movie date with your partner. See how you two feel when things start to get hot - and guys, when you start to get really excited, wait another 15 minutes to give her time to catch up…
P.S. - If anyone knows of any similar movies that we don’t have listed, add a comment and share you favorites. We’re always looking for new erotic movies to watch together.
But if you still find yourself looking for something more hard core, then check out some of the adult live streaming video sites like Sizzling Cams or Totally Free Cams (warning: adult).
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Man! This article rocks!! I was looking for such blog.. Great! You’re in my feed reader now
Hey Thilak, welcome! Thanks for the great note.
Have an awesome day!
Dan
I’ll have to thank you for coming over to my blog, else.. I would have never discovered such wonderful resource pond
Great site, I was just causin’ trouble.
Keep your fingers crossed - we should have our first YouTube video post up by tomorrow - we’ll be doing videos for a lot of our articles going forward.
Already shot the first few, and have been tooling with Pinnacle and the joys of video-editing-for-the-first-timer. I think it’s just about fully cooked at this point.
Have an awesome day!
Dan
Great! I’ll be waiting.. Do expect some comments from me in the near future.
I badly wanted to get some advices from you, but I thought to have a look at your archives before asking it.
Do you have an Archives page?
Great list of erotic thrillers. And I find some of the oldies like ‘Last Tango in Paris’ can be healthy for the libido!
Tinx
Hey, I’m a woman and I don’t want my porn watered down! I want to see it all. Most of my friends are the same way. Quit stereotyping us!
Hi, Just read your article about what type of porn women like and i have to say I agree with the last comment. The movies you have suggested are great erotic thrillers but not really “porn”. I enjoy watching porn, but prefer “female friendly porn”. I have just enjoyed a site www.femerotique.com which has great movies for women - really hot. I’m not trying to promote this site, but I do think it is worth a look and fills that “female porn gap” or did for me!
My wife and I were just discussing today that we enjoy an x-rated movie where the woman is enjoying herself. Most x-rated movies are degrading and many professional female pornstars seeem detached. My wife agrees with Michelle, she would prefer real hardcore sex with people who are thrilled to be participating. It’s diffficult to find movies in the middle ground between erotic / not explicit and degrading and abusive.
just checked out the www.femerotique.com site - almost forgot to get back to work…
–jennifer
Hi, I’m Jane. I really like watching porn with my husband. The right kind of movie, explicit but with the people looking like they are having a great time is really horny I think. We checked out www.femerotique.com last night. The movies are definitely different, still explicit but the women really look like they’re enjoying the whole experience. There’s one called e-dreams, would be interested to know whether people think its art or porn. I’ve never seen anything like it but it really turned me on. Let me know.
Just wanted to say thanks to Dan and Jennifer, plus the person who put the first comment up about femerotique. I had a look and showed it to my wife and she loved it, we have just purchased there first DVD, which opens a whole avenue because we can have it on the big scene! Thanks guys.