SUBSCRIBEIs it Possible to be a Shy Dominatrix? (Video)
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If you consider yourself to be submissive and yet you find others wanting you to dominate them, I can see where this could get a little confusing.
The big question I have for you is ‘Why are you attracting these people?".
If you are truly submissive, why do these people keep wanting you to dominate them. It’s normally quite obvious where a person lines up - a little to the top or to the bottom.
Are you sending mixed signals? Maybe you are a wolf in sheep’s clothing?
The really big thing you have to ask you self is "Are you sure about what you want?"
Sometimes we end up in a role, whether in life or sex, and find ourselves wondering how we got there. Maybe it’s time for a change and maybe not, but it’s worthwhile taking some time to get really clear about what you truly enjoy. Try on various roles and see what fits you best.
Start Slowly
If you do want to try the dominant role, then just start slowly rather than trying to put on the whole show all at once.
Just try little things and work your way up. That will give you time to decide if that is the role that you want or not. You don’t have to get dressed up in leather and spike heeled boots, tie him up, and punish him on the first try.
Start small and work your way up. Find and test your limits gradually. This works anytime you want to overcome shyness with with any area in your life. Take the first little step in that direction. The important thing is to take that first step.
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You two are so cute/sexy! I was smiling the entire time I watched this video.
I really do think most people are primarily dominant or submissive personality types, and it’s important to find someone who can complement your type. There are a few folks who can switch it up, but I think for the most part we lean one way or the other.
There are some things we can grow into by taking small steps, and there are some things that will never feel right.
How would these sub guys do if this woman told them she wanted them to take the dom role with her? Would they be able to pull it off? Would they like it?
I don’t know what kind of signals she would be giving off to attract sub guys, but it is pretty cool that they feel comfortable sharing their fantasies with her.
I say she should keep looking for a nice dom man who can fulfill her needs, and her, his.