I really do think most people are primarily dominant or submissive personality types, and it’s important to find someone who can complement your type. There are a few folks who can switch it up, but I think for the most part we lean one way or the other.

There are some things we can grow into by taking small steps, and there are some things that will never feel right.

How would these sub guys do if this woman told them she wanted them to take the dom role with her? Would they be able to pull it off? Would they like it?

I don’t know what kind of signals she would be giving off to attract sub guys, but it is pretty cool that they feel comfortable sharing their fantasies with her.

I say she should keep looking for a nice dom man who can fulfill her needs, and her, his.