Tools of the Trade… Your BDSM Shopping List
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So are you ready to get your kink on?
What will you need? Where are you going to get it? How crazy do you want to be?
This article will offer an interesting twist on classic BDSM items, as well as introduce you to a few new possibilities.
Hint: I’ve found a new use for four AA batteries, and the results have been spine-tingling.
Bondage in Aisle 5 - Hardware Stores Seen in a Whole New Light
It’s so funny – now that I’m into BDSM, the most innocent places spark sexually interesting ideas. We’re talking hardware stores, garden stores, pet stores… I used to have to be dragged into these places for sink parts and dog food, and now I like ducking into the rope aisle to see what colors or textures they have in stock.
I’ll whiz past the rawhide chews to see what kind of dog collars will fit a human-size neck. (“Does this come with a matching leash?”) Garden shops have hemp rope for binding trees – now come on, trees aren’t going anywhere, let’s put that rope to better use!
The Shopping List
In addition to your hands and mouth, here are some suggestions for your BDSM bag of tricks, one for every day of the week:
1. Ropes
Practice your reverse prayer, chest harness, and hog tie techniques with a variety of ropes – nylon, hemp, cotton. Rough, smooth, thick, silky, it’s fun to experiment and find out which works best for you. Not only can you restrain someone with rope, but you can fashion it into something as sexy as lingerie – highlight various parts of the body and turn it into an art form.
Fun tip: Apply a vibrator to a taut length of rope and feel the vibration spread…
Where you can find it: hardware, garden, army surplus store, online. Or steal it from the local boy scout troop.
2. Handcuffs
Metal cuffs are edgier and more painful, and lend an extra air of humiliation to your play session. It’s especially intense when they tighten up as you’re having sex, it’s like being bitten. I also like the smell of them - the oiled metal is hot.
Where you can find it: sex store, gun store, your friendly neighborhood police officer.
3. Clothes pins
Clothes pins should be renamed "nipple clamps." I mean, who uses them for hanging clothes these days? The inexpensive wooden clamps can be arranged in nice little rows along the curve of the torso or along the shoulder blades to make “angel wings.”
Where you can find it: grocery store, laundry aisle of retailer store, your old-fashioned neighbors clothesline.
4. Wartenberg Wheel
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