Is It Normal For a Virgin to Be Into BDSM? (Video)

As a virgin, it’s normal to find yourself turned on and sexually excited by many things, even if you’ve never actually had sexual intercourse. 

What turns you on is going to be different from what turns someone else on, and it’s important to embrace diversity and celebrate your uniqueness! 

Is there ever a point where something that turns you on would not be considered normal, especially if you’re a virgin

Well, yes and no.  It’s a complicated situation that needs a hard, honest look.

Dear Dan and Jennifer,

 

I found your website on YouTube. I think I am into BDSM or there may be something wrong with me.  I believe I am more Sadistic than Masochistic though and I am still a virgin as is my boyfriend.  He likes to be clawed and chained (yet to let me do that though) and when I scream in pain because I got hurt or something he gets a little excited.  I have clawed him so bad I took chunks of skin out of his hips and when he screamed in pain I laughed at him.  

 

The idea of burning, whipping, tying down, flogging, wrist/handcuffing, caging, and torturing him sounds fun.  Is there something wrong with me?  

 

Is it possible for a virgin to be into BDSM like this?

 

- BarbaraMissouri

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