Rough Sex and BDSM – Going Beyond The Occasional Spanking (Video)

Rough sex is an extremely popular but largely underground sexual fantasy. That doesn’t mean it doesn’t happen much, it just means people are usually afraid to talk about it.

And like with most things that are driven underground (prostitution being a great example), it’s hard to find good, safe tips and information… so you’re left to experimentation.

Rough sex is largely about mind games, dominance, and control – not just the physical

While many people think of rough sex as having mainly to do with physical aggression, when you truly get into it you’ll realize the most important aspect is generally the mental one. The mind games, the dominant and submissive relationship that quickly develops into total trust and absolute control.

Is make up sex just an excuse to have rough sex?

As amazing as it sounds, some couples actually have arguments and fights just so they have a socially acceptable excuse for what’s commonly known as make up sex (read: rough, wild, and passionate sex).

Here’s a question from a couple in Wyoming hoping to spice up their sex lives by experimenting with rough sex.

Dear Dan and Jennifer,

My partner and I have started to get into rough sex, but as far as we have gone with it, it’s just him pulling my hair and spanking me. I have tried to find other stuff online that we could add in, but really can’t find much. Any suggestions?

– Ellie, Wyoming

Wait! Give this Video 5 Stars and Subscribe Today so you don’t miss a single video.

Explore your sexual fantasies together

One of the wonderful things about being a couple is that you have a friend, a partner in crime, someone to share your experiences and the joys of life with.

Talk with your partner and share your fantasies…

It’s very important to…

Page: 1 2

MySpace Digg Yahoo Buzz Save on Delicious Submit to Stumbleupon Share/Save/Bookmark

Dan and Jennifer are the Founders and Senior Editors of AskDanAndJennifer.com, which has been called "the best and most popular Love and Sex advice column on the Internet today". Their videos are some of the most popular videos on YouTube. Don't forget to ask your dating, love, and sex questions in the Ask Dan and Jennifer - Love, & Sex Forums. You should Fan Dan & Jennifer on Facebook and Follow them on Twitter!

Take A Fun Sex Quiz

"Think You Understand Female Orgasms?"

Take The Orgasm Quiz And Find Out The Top 25 Female Orgasm Tips That You Can Use Tonight To Make Her Scream For More.

   

"Think You Know How To Give A Great Blow Job?"

Take The Blow Job Quiz And Find Out The Top 25 Blow Job Tips That You Can Use Tonight To Make Him Scream For More.

   

Check Out These Helpful Resources You May Like...





See More Recommended Resources »
Click on the slide!

Sex & Intimacy:

Britney Spears “3″ – Are Threesomes “In?” (Video)

It’s every guy’s wet dream right – and no, we’re not talking about the Princess-Leia-in-the-gold-bikini fantasy. We’re talking about threesomes....

Read more...
Click on the slide!

Sex & Intimacy:

Sex Toys for Boys: Male Masturbators, Penis Pumps, and More (Video)

Male masturbators don’t get enough P.R. Everyone’s heard of vibrators, dildos, etc. for women. But there are actually some really great sex toys out there...

Read more...
Click on the slide!

Sex & Intimacy:

Blowjob Tip #2 – She’s In Charge, Here’s Why… (Video)

If you’re learning how to give a great blowjob, one of the best tips you can employ is being in charge and being confident of your abilities to give great head....

Read more...
Click on the slide!

Sex & Intimacy:

Blowjob Tip #1 – Why It’s a Gift, Not an Obligation (Video)

Men love to get blowjobs – in fact, many men prefer getting oral sex to vaginal intercourse and sometimes, it’s their favorite type of stimulation of all...

Read more...
Click on the slide!

Sex & Intimacy:

What Causes Irrational Fear Of Sex? (Video)

Sex is everywhere. Sex sells, right? You see sex on television, in movies and you hear it in music. It’s on billboards, in newspaper ads and all over the Internet....

Read more...
Click on the slide!

Sex & Intimacy:

Swinger Danger! What To Do When Swinging Goes Wrong? (Video)

Swinging can be fun, but sometimes one or more people find themselves in an uncomfortable situation. Can “swinging gone wrong” be prevented? How do you figure...

Read more...
Click on the slide!

Sex & Intimacy:

What Are Crabs And How Do You Get Them? Dangerous Sex Toys? (Video)

You’ve probably heard of the term “crabs” before, and we don’t mean the kind you get at the local seafood joint. Crabs are a curable, although...

Read more...