The Beautiful Kind’s Ultimate BDSM, Fetish, & Kink Checklist

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It’s a Pervert Party, and you’re invited!

Copy this list into a word processing program so you can edit it, or print it out.

For each question assign a number based on this scale:

5 = This is something I REALLY like. Bring it on, baby!
4 = This is fun! Let’s go for it.
3= I’m not sure, kinda freaky, could be fun, let’s try it out.
2 = I’m not really into this, but if it excites my partner I’m GGG (good, giving, and game).
1 = Eh, I don’t think so.
0 = NO FREAKIN’ WAY.
? = I have NO idea what you are talking about. Seriously, I’m clueless.
* = fantasy only, stays in my head

Be as creative as you want – feel free to add, fill in blanks, specify, clarify. No, you don’t need to painstakingly fill out each and every number, you can whiz through if you like, use checks instead. Customize it to suit your needs; use a highlighter or different colors for your answers if it helps. Most of all, have fun!

Types of persona that turn you on

[ ] = I am this character, ( ) = Partner is this character

(  ) Male
(  ) Female
[  ] (  ) Transgender, drag, queer (_______________________)
(  ) Ethnicities (Asian etc: _______________________)
[  ] (  ) People with accents  ________________
[  ] (  ) People with disabilities (Type: _______________________)
[  ] (  ) Teachers, professors, librarians
[  ] (  ) Lawyers, judges _______________
[  ] (  ) Business professionals, managers
[  ] ( ) Interns/assistant/secretary
[  ] ( ) Nurses, doctors, medical professionals
[  ] ( ) Religious figures (rabbi, priest, nun) _____________
[  ] ( ) Nobility, royalty (Princesses or:  _______________)
[  ] ( ) Musicians (Rock stars, violinists, etc: ____________________)
[  ] ( ) Athletes (Football, basketball, baseball, etc: _____________________)
[  ] ( ) Wrestlers, martial arts, ninja etc: ___________________
[  ] ( ) Blue collar workers (Mechanics, maids, other:__________________)
[  ] ( ) Bikers, Hells Angels
[  ] ( ) Cowboys, cowgirls, farmers
[  ] ( ) Soldiers, marines
[  ] ( ) Sailors, coast guard, lifeguard
[  ] ( ) Police officers
[  ] ( ) Firefighters
[  ] ( ) Mail carrier, milkman, FedEx _______________________
[  ] ( ) Airplane pilots, flight attendants
[  ] ( ) Truck drivers
[  ] ( ) Bride, groom
[  ] ( ) Hunters
[  ] ( ) Surfers, extreme sports, skateboarders
[  ] ( ) Tattooed, pierced, body modified (Type: ____________________)
[  ] ( ) Pirates, rogues, guerillas
[  ] ( ) Historical figures (Civil War, Nazi, Abe Lincoln, ancient Egyptian or:__________________)
[  ] ( ) Inexperienced/virgin
[  ] ( ) High school boys/girls/cheerleaders (consenting adults!)
[  ] ( ) Prostitutes, pimps, sex workers, Johns, sluts
[  ] ( ) Fantasy creatures (mermaid, werewolf, vampire, etc.) ___________
[  ] ( ) Furries
[  ] ( ) Droids, robots, machines
[  ] ( ) Daddy, uncle, brother, cousin ___________
[  ] ( ) Mommy, aunt, sister, cousin ____________
[  ] ( ) Babysitter
[  ] ( ) Divorced
[  ] ( ) Widow(er)
[  ] ( ) Older sibling’s friend
[  ] ( ) Older people, elderly ____________________
[  ] ( ) Executioners
Others, please specify: (clowns, sci-fi, superheroes, etc.)  ________________________

Fetish Extra Credit

[  ] ( ) Smoking
[  ] ( ) Alcohol
[  ] ( ) Soft drugs (marijuana or: _______________)
[  ] ( ) Hard drugs (heroin  or: _________________)
[  ] ( ) Exhibitionism (being watched)
[  ] ( ) Voyeurism (watching)
[  ] ( ) Erotic dancing
[  ] ( ) Watching porn
[  ] ( ) Making porn (photographed or videotaped)
[  ] ( ) Oral sex
[  ] ( ) Forced oral
[  ] ( ) Male ejaculation, cum play _____________
[  ] ( ) Female ejaculation, squirting
[  ] ( ) Menstruation
[  ] ( ) Urination, golden showers
[  ] ( ) Defecation, scat
[  ] ( ) Vomit
[  ] ( ) Anal play/sex ___________
[  ] ( ) Double penetration
[  ] ( ) Fisting
[  ] ( ) Hot play (candle wax, etc)
[  ] ( ) Cold play (ice cubes, cold showers)
[  ] ( ) Foot worship
[  ] Group sex _____________
[  ] Bestiality __________________
[  ] ( ) Necro/unconscious/sleeping ____________________
[  ] ( ) Unshowered
[  ] ( ) Infectious (yeast infection, STD’s or:_____________________)

Favorite body parts: Ass back breasts legs hair feet hands eyes pussy cock __________

Turn offs: _________________________________________________________

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