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	<title>Comments on: Abstinence Only? Does it Really Work?</title>
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		<title>By: Ms Bhaven</title>
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		<description>Why abstinence only isn’t working.

This line above stopped me dead. As the mother of 2 teens, I can sum it up. Anytime you tell a teen to flat out NOT do something, you are pretty much guaranteeing yourself th opposite outcome.

At what point did we begin to think teens were stupid? They know what&#039;s going on and deserve the respect from the public to be educated enough to make their own decisions and not be expected to follow blindly like lemmings.

My spawn aren&#039;t angels and have been know to make a poor decision or two. However, when we arm them with an education and real reasons other than &quot;because I said so&quot; and &quot;because it&#039;s bad&quot; they tend to make the choice that is in their best interest.

Sometimes their choice isn&#039;t mine but as the mother of 2 teens, I&#039;ll have to get over that part pretty quick. What ever you do don&#039;t tell them I said that. ; )

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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Why abstinence only isn’t working.</p>
<p>This line above stopped me dead. As the mother of 2 teens, I can sum it up. Anytime you tell a teen to flat out NOT do something, you are pretty much guaranteeing yourself th opposite outcome.</p>
<p>At what point did we begin to think teens were stupid? They know what&#8217;s going on and deserve the respect from the public to be educated enough to make their own decisions and not be expected to follow blindly like lemmings.</p>
<p>My spawn aren&#8217;t angels and have been know to make a poor decision or two. However, when we arm them with an education and real reasons other than &#8220;because I said so&#8221; and &#8220;because it&#8217;s bad&#8221; they tend to make the choice that is in their best interest.</p>
<p>Sometimes their choice isn&#8217;t mine but as the mother of 2 teens, I&#8217;ll have to get over that part pretty quick. What ever you do don&#8217;t tell them I said that. ; )</p>
<p>Ms. Bhaven</p>
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