By: superman222

superman222 — Sun, 21 Feb 2010 06:04:05 +0000

There has to be a reason that girls actually feel it necessary to refuse the natural feeling of having sex for fun. There is a whole load of psychological reasons that prohibite girls to let a man have sex with her, but what is the actual reasoning behind it. I have talked to plenty of girls and they all said the same thing when I talked about sex with them, not with me, but just generally. They all said, I feared of getting pregnant when I was younger because I know that it could ruin my life if I were to get pregnant. I thought to my self that this is an influentual ordeal, but I it never escaped my mind that when they say, ” I feared of getting pregnant when I was younger” what does that mean? i thought that maybe since it is pass tence, they are aware that there is preventative measures either partner can use such as contraception to prohibite of ever getting pregnant in the first place, so they generally feel more open towards fooling around. I came down to the only conclusion, I could think of rationally is that girls are extremely complex and it takes an absolute definite patience and comprehension of a man to a women's psychology, in order to take the right steps.
I asked a friend about what she thought the reason why girls would not like to have sex, she responded that, “Once you meet the right women, it will be effortless to hop into bed with her.” I countered that by saying, why do men have sex with plenty of women then? How do men go out to night clubs and bars and are actualy successful in picking up women and having sex with them on the same night. I then asked her of a question that has been punishing me like crazy, especialy when your girlfriend said it to you after being with her for over 6 months and have been with each other physically once a day every weekend and not yet to have sex, it is why do girls actualy say that people like to have sex just for fun. Yet they shy away from it when it actual comes down to start having sex.

By: superman222

superman222 — Sun, 21 Feb 2010 05:26:49 +0000

I have been been going out with my girlfriend for 6 months now. I have talked sexually with her, had great make out plans. We were on a bed one time, I was kissing her and had a extreme erge to have sex so I started to remove her shirt, she denied it, by saying no. I thought it was better to do that then to ask her for it, because we all know that girls often shy away from sex if a guy were to strait foward ask them. When she used her hands to hold down her shirt, I said why? she told me that there were at least 8 guys who she gave her self to because she did not care, and she said she felt hurt because of it. so I stoped kissing her and we just ended up talking to each other for the rest of the night. Later on during the evening she felt happy that I did not "take advantage" of her. I believe that "taking advantage" is just the action of a male wanting sex, and showing that he is interested in it by removing or hinting a removal for her clothes. I believe that my girlfriend has exprienced abuse, because she gave her self out to guys to frequently and is feeling fear towards it. If anybody knows the reason why she is feeling this way in explicit detail and to give some examples of this type of abuse would be highly appreciated. If you would like to help out or just ask me for more details that would help you determine what needs to be taken care of, or if you just want to leave a suggestion, please e-mail me at: shyguy91@gmail.com

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