What The Church Should Be Telling You About Sexuality But Isn’t…

I have heard every type of sermon in 30 years time ranging from the typical foundational teachings to Dr. Seuss (if you can believe it) as a reference for deeper truths.

But the more typical subjects on sexual issues and relationship issues in the church and elsewhere range from marriage, single dating, and sex before or during marriage, abortion, and the dreaded gay and lesbian surge.

Sadly, there are other issues out there believers in Christ should be hearing from their pulpits. So permit this writer to expose some of those subjects because its high time believers and non-believers alike fight against such things for the sake of everyone on the planet. 

Why don’t we hear about rape? 

Why don’t we hear a preacher talk about how rape affects everyone? EVERYONE! According to Rape Abuse and Incest National Network 1 out of 6 women and 1 out of 33 men are raped in their lifetime. This leads to depression, suicide, and drug/alcohol abuse, not the pretty “sweet by and by” topics heard but something every believer and non-believer needs to hear about.

And the children, that’s a whole article in itself; incest and ministerial abuse is even as disgusting and falls under this category. There is also the topic of prison rape that is largely ignored by the best of minister (especially when dealing with prison ministries) 

If the church really wants to see healing of the body, mind, spirit, and soul then they need to deal with this topic head on. Until it is, thousands of men, women and children will keep in silence never finding healing or release for the things they’ve experienced. Anger, bitterness, rage, and deep hurt are issues that need the churches attention more than if two men or women live in loving relationships

Why don’t we hear about the international sex trade? 

Around the world the sex trade is so huge it is catastrophic to many families and friends. From families who can’t afford to keep their kids and give their kids away to the sex trade to women taken from villages from eastern and developing countries to satisfy the needs of their “clientele” this is a crime which needs a voice.

Where are the ministers in the world who will give these women (and men) a voice? Girls from preteens and older need someone to speak for them or they will be nothing more than objects in the hands of people who have no care for their welfare. 

Why do we not hear about adults with urges for sexual relationship with children?

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Ed Hooper is the moderator of Christian Pro Erotic, a Yahoo group for both practicing Christians and non-Christians relating to sexuality and faith. He lives in Dayton, Ohio. To learn more about Ed Hooper check out Christian Pro Erotic.

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  • Fred
    I think you're begging the question a bit here. There are plenty of clergy, including Catholic priests, who are talking about sexual issues in a frank and positive way. The repression that you speak of is really on its way out within congregations and is more a feature of the conservative "reactionary" churches rather than the more liberal mainstream churches.

    Also, I think what you're missing in this article is an explanation of the Church's point of view. Despite the fact that the Vatican's take on sexuality is not very popular right now, it is not really very fair to simply dismiss the Church's position on sexual issues as being misguided or repressive. Sure, there has been repression in the past, and sure, a lot of criminals used the Church to hide their crimes, but we must always remember that behind all the priests, pulpits and noise there is still Christ. Maybe the Church administration is in the wrong, and maybe mistakes have been made, but as Christians shouldn't we also be trying to see Christ in the message? I mean, Jesus says a lot of things that really piss people off, even Christians. (_especially_ Christians) Sometimes we don't want to hear the message, even if it is good for us. Do you think it is it possible that the Church is actually expressing Christ's will on sexual issues and we just don't want to hear it?

    Just a thought.

    Fred
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