I use to. But it had nothing to do with the sex. It had to do with him. How much attention he paid to me that was non sexual. How well he listened. How much time he spent doing things with me I liked to do or including me in things he liked to do. A womans biggest sex organ is her mind. Engage her on a mental and emotional level and you might have a chance. But, if your that afraid your virgin bride won’t want to have sex with you once you have sex, Take her to an OBGYN and have them cut the Hyman so that it isn’t so painful for her. Then you might have a chance that she will at least let you touch her the next morning instead of looking at you like your a clod cause lets face it. There isn’t a man in the universe no matter how experenced he is that can have sex with a virgin and not screw it up.