5 Tips To Please Your Man In Bed

Want to give your man a thrilling experience like never before? Here are 5 really simple ways to make your lovemaking hotter, steamier and more passionate, starting tonight!

1. The best position for his enjoyment

Practically every animal species utilizes the rear-entry “doggy-style” position, so it is a natural one for humans to enjoy, as well. While you won’t have face-to-face contact, there are many benefits. It’s great for guys because it gives them full control.

This is one of the best positions for hitting her G-spot and allows him to fondle your breasts, stomach, clitoris, back, neck and other sensual spots. The main benefit for your man is that he’ll be able to get incredibly deep penetration (above-average guys need to be careful as deep thrusts might hit her cervix, which can be quite painful).

2. Find your man’s “hidden” zones

Yes, men love to be touched sensually too. I call these “hidden” zones because many people don’t realize, or forget, that these areas of the body LOVE attention.

While many of these zones are obvious, like the lips, groin, and inner thighs, there are also areas that, when stroked, caressed and kissed, can drive your partner wild and even intensify their orgasm.

Believe it or not, the ears, neck, arms, chest and scalp are all really sensitive areas that love to be stimulated. Spend some time during foreplay caressing and touching these areas, and watch how it pleases your partner.

3. Set a romantic mood

Think men aren’t romantic or wouldn’t appreciate it? Think again! Everyone loves a thoughtful and kind gesture. Of course you might think that using candles, music, incense and even rose petals to set the mood of your lovemaking is a little too “cliché.” But he’ll think differently!

Your partner will LOVE YOU for this. Just imagine how happy you would feel if someone went to all the trouble to create a special lovemaking occasion that you can cherish for years to come. Could this be so “cliché” because people enjoy it so much? Point made.

4. Give him a hand job

When beginning a genital massage, start with lighter, irregular strokes – like teasing. As you get further and further into it, stick with two or three main strokes that your partner really enjoys.

Developing a good rhythm that your partner can get into is the key to bringing your partner to orgasm with a genital massage.

5. Please your man with more oral sex

If I had to give you one piece of advice to make your lovemaking perfect, it would be: learn the art of fellatio. It’s true, all men love it. It feels great and actually takes a lot of trust and comfort to let somebody have their mouth down there. In short, it’s an important part of lovemaking and is often the main event.

Problem is, women often start fellatio by sucking on the penis straightaway when, actually, they should start with some playful teasing and soft touches.

This will lead to a much more powerful orgasm as it heightens his anticipation. Make sure you use different techniques and your tongue, as well.

So there you have it. Five great ways to make your man more satisfied in the bedroom. While they’re all great, I would recommend putting most of your energy and time into learning fellatio, simply because men crave it so much and the loving smile and kisses you’ll probably get in return are definitely worth it.

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the author of Blow by Blow: The Complete Guide to Fellatio. Unfortunately, most women leave men frustrated and disappointed after fellatio.

Learn to be one of the rare women who can satisfy him with oral sex. To learn more, visit: the how to give a blow job website.

Dan & Jennifer also recommend Blow His Mind Tonight.
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Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the author of Lick by Lick - How to Go Down on a Woman and Have Her Begging for More (Cunnilingus), the complete guide to giving women oral pleasure. Unfortunately, most men leave women frustrated and disappointed after cunnilingus. Find out how you can be one of the rare men who can satisfy her with oral sex by visiting the Lick by Lick website. Read our review here. Michael is also the author of Blow by Blow: The Complete Guide to Fellatio. Unfortunately, most women leave men frustrated and disappointed after fellatio. Learn to be one of the rare women who can satisfy him with oral sex by visiting the how to give a blow job website.

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  • Gary
    What a great article. I believe we men often get stereotyped in many ways that are not all that flattering. We are much more complex creatures than we are often thought to be. Yes we love sex. Yes we think about it a lot. Yes we love oral sex. Yes, yes, yes ,yes... But, believe it or not, we also are very romantic, love to engage in the mental game of sex, and sometimes need to be romanced to be in the mood.
  • Gary, absolutely, such great points. Many men (so many more than society in general would have us believe) are VERY romantic and NEED that emotional, mental bond to truly enjoy sex.
  • Maria
    These tips are so useless, women don't need tips on how to satisfy men, it's men who need tips on how to please women. It's these tip articles that are responsible for the lack of sex for men in long-term relationships. The basic reason men have problems getting sex, is they don't satisfy their partner. They read these things and feel more entitled to penis pleasure and then demand more from the wife who in response, gives him even less. The man is giving nothing and yet expects more - he wife laughs in his face and gives him even less. Sex is a chore to a dissatisfied women - making men feel more entitled actually get him less attention. Write an article on the man's fault for his wife's loss of interest in sex, he is a lousy lover and that he is getting more than he deserves.
  • Maria, by your comment, you may not have noticed that there are dozens and dozens of articles and videos on Ask Dan & Jennifer for men (and women) on how to please a woman. You can find these on the Female Orgasm Videos, Tips, and Advice section.

    But all the videos and articles in the world are not going to fix a troubled relationship where one partner does not WISH to make the other happy - and often this type of situation is mutual - like a he-said, she said, and it just doesn't matter who "started it".

    The reality is that every day we choose EVERYTHING we do or do not. Every action (and inaction) is a choice, for which we own full responsibility. So for example, you have to choose whether you wish to be or not to be with your partner. You have a choice, every single day.

    And if you choose to be with that person, then you must choose to either 1.) fix the sexual issues or 2.) accept them and move on. but becoming so bitter over them only poisons one's self and one's own life; it cannot in any way make anything better.

    A suggestion to consider: perhaps you will find more sexual satisfaction by focusing on what it is that you want, and letting go of the anger around what you are unhappy with.

    Anyone dealing with such an unhappy sexual relationship as the outlook described in the comment above is obviously experiencing a very troubled sexual relationship, and would be well advised to seek professional relationship counseling. Most people would be very surprised how helpful just a few sessions with an unbiased third party therapist can be - to help uncloud one's perspective and help one stop out of the victim role that so easily sets in when we become chronically unhappy with a situation.

    Good luck, hope that you are able to find peace and happiness.
  • marialatin
    Men have no problems getting orgasm - women do. These advice articles are biased in favor of a man’s right to orgasms, fantasies etc. By your account, you present the two sides in various articles and that’s the problem. The person who feels the most entitled to sex and is deluded in his thinking that he is a great lover will pick the articles that speak to his sexual grievances, not enough BJ, HJ etc. His partner, who has had maybe one orgasm with him in the last 10 yrs, is dumbstruck. She has sex with him, he gets an orgasm and then goes happily to sleep and she is left to satisfy herself and he wants her to work harder to satisfy him?? Having sex with a man who shuts down when you try to explain what you need is difficult enough, without the madness of being made to feel bad for not satisfying his needs. Your articles are for men who have done the work to satisfy their partner, which is the minority of men. Start your articles with the statement - this is advice for men who satisfy their partner – so that when men wave these things in their partner’s face, she can point out that – “this is for men who satisfy dear, don’t push your luck”. Female sexual frustration is a major problem and is not addressed in any meaningful manner. Bad sex for women leads to resentment, sex becomes another thing on the to-do list and no extras are to be expected under those circumstances.
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