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Men and women tend to approach sex differently. This isn’t to say that women don’t enjoy or want sex just as much as men, but they don’t tend to go about it the same way. Women tend to prefer more foreplay and seduction.
Couples that are completely open and honest with each other can experience an amazing sex life playing together. This is because they listen to each other, and they discover each other’s fantasies and desires.
They also know that having a great sex life is about more than experiencing amazing orgasms in various positions. It’s about trying and experiencing new things together - truly playing together.
The problem comes in when one partner ups the ante and wants to try something more exotic than their lover is comfortable with.
This can be the woman maybe wanting to tie her lover up, the man wanting to try anal sex with his girlfriend, or hundreds of other exotic sexual permutations.
And since anal sex is such a popular fantasy for so many men, let’s talk about how this desire impacts all the women who are dealing with those men.
Of course, pushing boundaries is often just half the fun for sexual play, so it’s important to peel back those fears and figure out where they started.
So what’s a girl to do when her boyfriend REALLY wants to try anal sex, especially when he tries SO hard to please her?
Here’s a question from a lady in Florida facing this sexual dilemma with her boyfriend…
Dear Dan and Jennifer,
I have recently started dating this very great guy. I introduced him to the family, and he got their approval. Usually this does not happen, so I got the green light from my family, and friends, and even random neighbors! Everyone says "you look great together!" Plus I feel very happy around him. He calls me all the time, pays me respect and attention and even has declared that he wants to marry me if I permit it.
Okay, so the problem is this. When we have sex, he is very focused and he puts all of his energy and stamina into it… which lasts a little too long for my taste! Also he is very experimental and wants to satisfy my every request! This is great right?
Well, now he pushed up the stakes and wants to try Anal sex! I don’t want to try it because I read that it is dangerous or bad, and I don’t want to break this taboo. However I have been extremely experimental in the past, but I never tried this. Am I being too prudish or what? How should I maintain a great sex life and relationship with him, but not make him feel rejected or limited in the bedroom?
– Cynthia, Florida
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I want to have anal sex with my husband and I want to know how we can start.We have never done it before.We have great sex,but I want to see how anal sex feels since I heard that one may get multiple orgasms with it.Also are there any side effects with anal sex?
Receiving anal sex will cause the following possible physical and medical risks.
( 1 ) Holes (perforation) and infection in the colon.
( 2 ) Fissures
( 3 ) Hemorrhoids
( 4 ) Lose strength of two sprinkle muscles inside rectum or enlarge rectum or anal size and could not return to its original size so that stool will always being dropped, out of control of bowel movement.
( 5 ) Anal, bowel, rectum or lower portion of colon cancers.
I think that for women who don’t want to do anal sex don’t do it, even to please a very nice partner. I do not care for it, have had pain, hemorrhoids etc from it and still dates will try very aggressively I might add, to get it. Women are really under pressure on this. I did not get any sexual stimulation from it, guys might because of their prostate being closer.
I had a conversation with my current partner about the fact that he has never been penetrated anally, and that until HE has tried it, don’t push it on me. The guys need to try being penetrated anally first, in my opinion, as mind and body are connected and my friends tell me that their partners do not wipe their parts, even fingers, after anal penetration before re-entering the vagina. Not great for preventing infections!