When to Say NO to Anal Sex… (Video)
<< Previous Pages: 1 2
When it becomes uncomfortable…
Many people enjoy different activities during sex. This can range from S & M to anal sex to foot fetishes to anything your imaginations can dream up.
As long as you both enjoy it and you are both being smart and safe, there’s nothing against having fun and enjoying new and different things with your partner!
Good things can’t last forever though, and you may find that some of the things you once enjoyed doing have become uncomfortable and even painful. For example, if you and your partner really enjoy having anal sex, but after children it becomes painful for you to do so, you and your partner may become frustrated.
Just what do you do if you and your partner’s favorite activities become something you aren’t able to do anymore? Do you stop? Do you grin and bear it?
But they like it…
Even if something in particular is uncomfortable or painful to you, if your partner likes it a lot, you might be inclined to let them continue and just suffer through the pain. This is not something you are obligated to do! Not only is it extremely uncomfortable for you, it might even cause you harm in some way.
If you have had surgery or have had children and there are some physical reasons that keep you from enjoying your partner in the same way you once had, talk to your doctor about how safe it is for you to continue doing so. Don’t be embarrassed! They’ve heard it all before!
If you continue, you may find that it’s not just painful, it’s downright dangerous and could cause your body further damage. Your doctor can tell you what is safe and what isn’t.
Finding something else…
While you and your partner may be disappointed at first, if you truly love each other and care about each other, you’ll find more new and exciting ways to give each other pleasure.
There are a million and one things out there that two people can do together to share each other intimately and sexually, and if you continue to try new things and work different elements into your routine, you’re bound to find something else that turns you and your partner on. Don’t give up!
They won’t let it go…
Every once in awhile, there’s someone who just won’t let it go. They may want it anyway, even if it hurts you or may cause your body damage. Rest assured, this person isn’t worth your time! You have the right to say "No" and if something hurts you, you don’t have to do it.
There are plenty of other fish in the sea that will respect your boundaries and respect you if you choose to no longer participate in an activity that makes you uncomfortable.
Pages: 1 2  << previous
About the author: Dan and Jennifer are the Founders and Senior Editors of AskDanAndJennifer.com, which has been called "the best and most popular dating, love, and sex advice column on the Internet today". Their videos are some of the most popular videos on YouTube. Don't forget to ask your dating, love, and sex questions in the Ask Dan and Jennifer - Love, & Sex Forums.
Something to say? Join the conversation in the Dating, Love, & Sex Forums.
Have You Read These Related Stories?
- Does Liking Anal Sex With a Strap On Make Me Gay? (Video)
- Is Anal Sex Really Dangerous? (Video)
- Getting Anal Sex Right - The First Time (Video)
- Help! Anal Sex Is The ONLY Way His Penis Stays Hard! (Video)
- Is It Okay to Have Anal Sex Without Lube? (Video)
Check Out These Helpful Resources You May Like...
Watch the Latest Sex Advice Videos
Enjoy our latest Sex Tips & Advice Videos, fresh from YouTube.
Tip: Click the Left and Right arrows in the video player to browse dozens more videos...
Today's Featured Sex Tips & Advice Story
99.9% Of Men Don’t Know How To Recognize Premature Ejaculation Before It Arrives – Join The .01% Of Guys That Do…TODAY!
Establish a Pleasure Plan What YOU must do is establish a pleasure scale in your mind that ranges from 1 to 10. 1 on the pleasure represents no arousal – how you... Read the story »
Latest Sex Tips & Advice Headlines
- 4 Secrets Guaranteed To Spice Up Your Sex Life
- How To Use Sex Positions To Last Longer In Bed And Improve Your Performance By Up To 500%
- Should I Tell My Parents I’m Gay? (Video)
- Men, How Helping Around the House Can Get You Laid!
- Can Masturbation Help Prevent Getting Erections At The Wrong Time? (Video)


SUBSCRIBE
