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Top 10 Ways To Boost Your Sexual Confidence with Women

Sex Tips & Advice - Top 10 Ways To Boost Your Sexual Confidence with Women

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Hey guys. Do you ever wonder how the seduction guys do it? How do they have such Incredible Confidence With Women when some of them are just down right ugly and fat?

Confidence has little to nothing to do with looks. Confidence comes from the inside. Our readers are always making comments like, "You say to have confidence, but that’s not so easy for me. How exactly do I get this confidence that you speak of?"

Once you know the secret, you’ll wonder why you didn’t figure it out on your own…

Our definition of confidence is simply "not caring what others think about you". Only YOU can determine what’s right for you - your looks, your style, your personality… When you stop letting other people judge you by their personal standards, you will have true internal confidence.

Here’s a great article on improving your sexual confidence from one of our favorite guys in the Dating Coaching and Seduction arena, David DeAngelo.

Top 10: Ways To Boost Sexual Confidence

By David DeAngelo - Web Site: DoubleYourDating.com

Most guys lack confidence in their ability to physically turn on a woman and “rock her world” when it comes time to hit the sheets. A woman knows right away if she’s dealing with one of these “boy-men” and runs for the hills as soon as she realizes it. If you want to make sure she sees you as a Sexually Confident kind of guy — the kind of guy who can ignite throbbing sexual passions deep inside her — you need to become a master at giving women an incredible sexual experience. Here are 10 powerful tips to get you started.

Number 10 - Uncover the source of Sexual Confidence

Sexual Confidence comes as a result of knowing how to give a woman mind-blowing pleasure. It’s the confidence that the woman you’re with will have a once-in-a-lifetime experience with you. It’s knowing all the steps — from the first eye contact all the way to the “end game” — and knowing how to build ANTICIPATION at every step along the way. Start by practicing my “two steps forward, one step back” technique by escalating things, then backing off, then escalating further, then backing off again. The anticipation and arousal this creates will drive her INSANE. Don’t say I didn’t warn you.

Number 9 - Get out of the manipulation mindset

Guys are always curious about how to “trick” a girl into bed — what the magic words are, etc. I personally know a few guys who do this… and I can tell you it does NOT lead to fulfillment. Avoid this whole “manipulation mindset,” and stop trying to figure out what the magic bullets are to get a woman to do what you want in a dishonest way. It’s much better to work on becoming an interesting guy who knows what to do to build attraction in a natural, non-manipulative way. If what you’re doing feels wrong or unethical, stop it. There are better ways to get what you want.

Number 8 - Stop idealizing beautiful women

Most guys get fooled into believing that just because a woman is unusually attractive, she’s also usually honest and would never consider taking from you, cheating on you or lying to you. The reality is that people are never 100% “good” or 100% “bad.” There are situations where ANY person would lie, cheat, steal, or be disloyal. When you accept the reality that people are people, a beautiful woman is still human, and that the woman you feel strongly for is just as likely to be dishonest or disloyal as any other, you’ll take her off that pedestal you put her on. And that’s an important step toward achieving Sexual Confidence.

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2 Responses to “Top 10 Ways To Boost Your Sexual Confidence with Women”

  1. Alex Shalman on April 28th, 2007 11:47 am

    You guys know David DeAngelo? Very cool! I’m actually in the middle of watching Deep Inner game with David and Dr. Paul. I like!

  2. Mark Smith on April 29th, 2007 4:21 pm

    call her bluff with coldness when you feel tested by her
    be unpredictable when you’re around her
    keep her in suspense give her maybes
    cut your supply off
    go to bed early say you want to go to sleep now
    in the am tell her you have to get on with your work
    on the phone say i’m going to get going
    give her the i’m going to leave after this beer or i’m going to leave early
    when she calls say i’m just on the other line i’ll call you back
    call a friend while i’m with her
    when you feel the test, play it cool
    tell her i’m unsure and play it easy
    don’t smile at her too often also when she is sarcastic, don’t smile
    I am the prize, not her
    don’t explain yourself only when asked (more of a bad boy)

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