Comments on: How To Give Her Mind Numbing, Leg Shaking Orgasms…

By: marialatin

marialatin — Mon, 22 Feb 2010 08:31:12 +0000

Encouraging men to please their partner with dreams of what he will get in return is counterproductive if the purpose of the advice is to encourage sexual intimacy. Most women can tell when his focus is on what he will get out of pleasing his partner and the type of men who see this as a way of getting the type of sex they want lack the patience to wait. They want to close the deal too quickly. Men are far too transparent when it comes to sex. What does work is a genuine desire to please the one you love. If both men and women went into relationships in this in mind, we would be happier with each other.
Sex based on “I'll do this to her so she'll do this for me” is the surest way to stifle sex with women. It too contrived and the motives have no depth and as such, women are turned off. Don't think about what's in it for you just have a genuine desire to please your partner out of love and caring. There is nothing that she will not do if she feels loved and cherished.
I don’t think that men are really so uncontrolled sexually that they cannot be loving and caring. I think the general message from books and articles encourage men to believe that they should be able to manipulate their partner to have sex to their liking.
This rarely works, that’s why these articles are so popular because men are constantly searching for the magic key to sex with women. There is a key but you will not find it in these articles, with the emphasis on quick fixes. The key is patience, genuine love, affection and respect. It may take longer but anything you both work for has more depth and quality. A sexual relationship based on a firm carefully crafted foundation, will continue through the storms in a relationship. Dry spells would be rare, and decades of no sex with your partner would be unlikely.

By: Marialatin

Marialatin — Thu, 04 Feb 2010 06:08:47 +0000

It floors me how many men want to use their wives for live porn shows. I am so disgusted when I see these request for help by men who are bored with sex with their long -term partner and want her to degrade herself for him. What happened to leaving her if you don't love her? Why do you think you have the right to use another human because they happen to be unlucky enough to have a snake in their home.
Just shows how dangerous men are who look at porn. As men watch more and more porn, these dangerous plans to use the women as a collection of sex parts for his pleasure will increase. I pray that a law is passed that considers men who try this manipulation of another human as criminals. This should come under laws that punish men for attempted rape and sexual abuse.The man who wrote this request should be found, investigate and charged. Making this a criminal offense will safeguard women who will increasing have to deal with this. Like the physical abuse laws that women had to fight for, this must be exposed and criminalized. Women stop sleeping.
Any women reading this who are being pressured by the snake who calls himself your partner have the courage and self respect to do the following – first you must leave the relationship because you living with an abuser.
- manipulate him to fulfill your fantasy – him having anal sex with men. Robby and all men who try these fantasies, better be careful, you might end up locked in a hotel room with two men with fantasies of anal sex equally as strong as yours and try to manipulate you to succumb.
All of the men trying to manipulate their partner into performing degrading sex acts for their benefit should be considered abusers and so called relationship expert who encourage this are wrong.
BTW – Why is Dan and Jennifer so silent to this creep. Dan and Jennifer are in support of men manipulating their partners into to having 3somes so this must be OK too.
Women, this is the slippery slope that we will have to deal with more and more as men become addicted to porn. What next, when they exhaust all their other porn fantasies, bestiality? Speak up – do something, stop encouraging men to degrade and use women. Jennifer, are you brain dead? I would at the very lest expect you to say something about this – by your silence you must condone this vileness.

By: Dan & Jennifer

Dan & Jennifer — Sat, 30 Jan 2010 09:51:24 +0000

Thanks for sharing that! we hear that type of feedback a lot, which is why we direct our male readers to check out this guide. it literally is one of the top guides to this topic.

By: cleondann

cleondann — Tue, 22 Dec 2009 11:59:03 +0000

that's really will become leg shaking for her.. if u use Butterfly vibrator as it let her to the extreme level and she will surely burst with that,…

By: cleondann

cleondann — Tue, 22 Dec 2009 06:59:03 +0000

that's really will become leg shaking for her.. if u use Butterfly vibrator as it let her to the extreme level and she will surely burst with that,…

By: Dan and Jennifer

Dan and Jennifer — Mon, 18 May 2009 19:14:06 +0000

That’s a myth… but it unfortunately is a reality for a lot of women.

By: Sashawwnna

Sashawwnna — Tue, 20 May 2008 04:14:38 +0000

Is it true that a woman can’t have an orgasm;from penetration?

By: Alex

Alex — Thu, 15 May 2008 05:24:27 +0000

My girlfriend is too shy to have an orgasm. Plus I cant find her clit. She loves sex and she tries to please me more than herself. I just want her to feel good.

By: Kári Módel fyrir grapevine

Kári Módel fyrir grapevine — Mon, 07 Apr 2008 01:26:38 +0000

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By: josh

josh — Thu, 20 Mar 2008 20:35:17 +0000

hey i have a question. i am not gay but i like to wear thongs. and i my girlfriend is all against she says you only do it if your gay. how do i go about telling her.?

By: Law of Attraction Fellow

Law of Attraction Fellow — Wed, 20 Feb 2008 17:31:08 +0000

You really need to concentrate on being attentive to your partners needs.

By: senoya

senoya — Mon, 21 Jan 2008 23:18:44 +0000

How do i cum if my husband has a small penis

By: Greevan

Greevan — Fri, 28 Dec 2007 10:57:49 +0000

my boyfriend is an accountant and is very busy but i know he loves me very much.
How do i seduce him or get attention.

By: asdf

asdf — Mon, 17 Dec 2007 20:57:37 +0000

Robby,
The best way to approach this is to get a sharp knife and castrate yourself. You can have a doctor do it if you’re afraid of bleeding to death, but that just adds to the fun!

Enjoy

By: robby

robby — Fri, 02 Nov 2007 20:23:25 +0000

Hi.
I hope you are both fine.

Straight to the point,
My wife and I are happy married for 12 years.
Now i have fantasies (like many men do) is to see my wife have sex with another man or men.
My questions are:
1) How do i make her to enjoy this open marriage lifestyle?
2) How do i “set up” for her first 3some/4some (mmf or mmmf) , without her much noticing it is a set up.

Frankly we have joined an adult swinging site, and have done it a couple of time, my wife having sex with other.I know she enjoys it..but she is not opened minded or straight forward enough to say she enjoyed it and wants more.
Vice versa is that she always says she is not enjoying it.
But, she is !! As she comes to orgasm all the time when having sex with other men too.
The men also knows that she is really enjoying it.

I just want her to be open and be more aggresive to say she wants more.
Because everytime she has sex with other men, i have to do the “set up ” a bit..
Please help me to make her be more opened and more agreesive..
I am planning to arrange a 4 some nite ( mmmf) for her, how should i set this up with out her knowing?

Thank you and i apologiose for my poor english
Robby

By: Speak Sexy

Speak Sexy — Fri, 12 Oct 2007 19:17:17 +0000

This really is a great topic! Female orgasms seem to have an unsolvable mystery around them for most men – and many women. It’s not all about knowing where and how to touch. It’s about creating an environment that makes her feel comfortable and receptive.

One way to easily visualize the issue is to think of a woman using a vibrator that she loves. When she uses the vibe in a dark room, she orgasms easily, but when she uses it in a brightly-lit room she just can’t seem to orgasm. Obviously the physical stimulation from the vibe is the same in both rooms – so what difference does the lighting make? Once you figure this out, you’ll never have trouble achieving an orgasm or giving your partner an orgams again. (But remember the mental and emotional keys are different for every woman…just to make female sexuality that much more confusing!)

By: Jim

Jim — Thu, 13 Sep 2007 19:32:54 +0000

There’s nothing more exciting to me than to give my partner orgasms. The more the better! She can’t fake an orgasm if you’ve ever succeeded in giving someone an orgasm. The spontaneous jerking, the flushed skin of her neck leading down between her breasts and the dialating of her eyes are all clues that she’s in an orgasmic; receptive state. Women and men can have a spontaneous orgasm caused by a high level of excitement even if they aren’t being touched. It is all controlled in the brain. If she finds you sexy and if you let her approach you, you won’t be disappointed. Throw her down and force yourself on her an you’ve lost!

By: Jeff

Jeff — Mon, 30 Jul 2007 00:21:11 +0000

On one hand you say girls want sex as much as men on the other you say that girls really only achieve orgasm via oral sex, so they don’t really need penetration. There’s a contradiction here.