We also sent each other flowers- yes she sent them to me, too– with salacious invitation in the Sealed Cards, and greeting cards which we altered with Liquid Paper so that we could write in some much more salacious invitation, and mailed them to each other at work. That form of teasing always worked, and had co-workers wondering why we would never let them read THOSE cards! We would find excuses to feel each other, and caress each other when we were together in public, always finding discrete ways of doing it so it was not obvious. It became a serious game for both of us to find some new way to be able to touch each other in a manner that appeared totally innocent to on-lookers.

Sadly, the real result of all or teasing and playing around is that people would come up to us, and tell us that we are obviously in love, and that they had not felt that way about their spouse in years, and wanted to know how long we had been together, and how we kept the fires lit. We were very candid to these strangers when they were bold enough to ask us. We felt they were entitled to honest advice from both of us.

There seems to be a real need for advice to couples on how to get the lust back in their lives. But, for the most part, it was never there. People don't talk to each other about sexual matters, afraid to give out information to their partners that can be used against them. There is so little trust in couples these days. So, they become roommates, scratching an itch a couple of times a month, with the lights out, before bedtime, so that sex becomes nothing more than a sleep aid. Sex is boring because neither of the partners is willing to make any effort to make it fun. The lack of sex training( different from sex ed.) affects most couples, and they are only now finding websites like this one where they can find someone to help them.

Thank you, Dan and Jennifer, for what you do here.