Comments on: Finding A Rhythm That Works When She’s “On Top”

By: Speak Sexy

Speak Sexy — Thu, 01 Nov 2007 13:20:06 +0000

John – The problem you describe is very common since the woman on top, especially sitting, makes very deep penetration possible. Some women enjoy when the man hits “rock bottom” but others find it very painful.

One way to avoid this and still get the rocking motion is for her to lean forward a bit more and to not sit down all the way but to stay half-kneeling over you. Unfortunately unless she has super-strong thighs this position isn’t going to be comfortable for long. If however, you are both lying down with her on top, then it’s possible to rest her upper body on yours and to rock her hips back and forth. It won’t be as deep as if she is sitting, and the feeling is slightly different – but probably just as enjoyable! Hope this helps!

Bob – I completely agree with you. There is no right or wrong way to do this and it should be all about fun and experimentation.

Thanks for the comments!

By: sasa

sasa — Wed, 31 Oct 2007 08:26:40 +0000

how is it?

By: Bob

Bob — Fri, 19 Oct 2007 01:14:03 +0000

First and foremost, each time a couple tries “woman on top” for the first time with each other, is a “first” for both. If either of them experienced this with another, it will never be the same with their new partner.
If the woman feels anxious or uncomfortable the first time, these fears will only fade with the encouragement of her partner, and vice versa.
In any firt time experience with a new partner or position, there is no “right” or “wrong” but rather a mutual experience that is meant for both FUN and pleasure, not ratings.
So my comment to all those out there who are biting their nails with worry and insecurity, is to relax, start slow, enjoy and let this experience allow you to take each other to new “heights”.
P.S. If it ain’t fun, it ain’t worth a f__k!

By: John

John — Fri, 19 Oct 2007 00:12:44 +0000

I have a problem with my wife ‘on top’. When I am lying on my back and she is on top, we find that I hit rock bottom. I’m not very big but the length is obviously just a bit longer than she can comfortably take. Therefore, she naturally does not want to be on top. However, the position of a woman on top, rocking back and forth is a position I have experienced with past lovers and found that it is very pleasurable for me and usually very pleasurable for my partner. So, is there some why to enjoy the same back and forth rocking motion without quite so much deep penetration?