I remember when I first heard the term MILF. I spent time wondering what it was and ‘googling’ my way to becoming more informed on the code name. Coming across such websites as ‘milf hunter’ (kinky and somewhat funny because it’s so fake, in my opinion) and then realizing that MILF actually meant ‘Mother-I’d-Like-to-Fuck’.

I gotta admit, a devilish grin came across my face. Was this the category I was now in? No longer the fresh little kitty who could make men purrrr… Now I was identified as a ‘mother’ – it was different.

For me, the term MILF just inspires those of us who crave to hold fast to our desirable & sexual side of life. It means there is a SEXUAL creature under all of the ”mommy-ness” that shields us.

Perhaps the ‘kitty’ had just evolved into a well experienced TIGRESS – and that was okay with me. After all, I happen to believe a true TIGRESS can make a man scream with passion v.s. a little kitty who can only entice a purr….

Losing Sight Of Our Sexual Prowess

On another note however, many women tend to lose sight of their sexual prowess once they become consumed by motherhood. It happens – a lot. It’s the tried & tested rule that most couples experience a lowering in sexual activity when children come into their lives.

I feel it’s so important for us “Mamas” to celebrate our sexuality and continue to harvest it. Too many women lose their individuality and the sexual connection with their partners with being so Mommy-focused.

It’s important to find the space where your sexual being still exists & to NEVER lose it. We all know who these Mommies are. They carry themselves well. They still have the swagger yet benefit from having more life experience and most often are in the throes of their prime sexual years.

Believe me, I take my kids to the park, I grocery shop with them, etc, etc. That doesn’t mean I can’t look good doing it! When you feel sexy, people know it.

I think in most cases a MILF is even more desirable then a fresh kitty. We are sexually mature women in our prime!  We know what we want & more importantly, how to get it!

Bringing Out Your Inner MILF….

Bringing out your MILF-iest self doesn’t have to be a grandiose undertaking.  Sometimes it’s the little things.  Wear heels when you grocery shop, walk like you KNOW you’ve got a great thong on under those jeans.

Even the kinkiest of MILF’s can carry off that prowess with the just rolled out of bed look. A hot pair of sunglasses and some flirty lipstick is sometimes all it takes. 

The important point here is that you BELIEVE IT! FEEL like you are the erotic sexual being you know exists beneath the surface of your Motherly responsibilities. 

Not everyone with GREAT sex appeal is the best looking, but FEELING the sexual vibe can do a lot for yourself and your confidence and for getting noticed.  Don’t dread your 30’s & 40’s ladies. WORK ‘em! 

Isn’t this the age where we feel the most comfortable in our own skin?  Take it a step further and exude your most sexually MILF-charged self! 

Here’s to my MILF sistas of the world; never lose your swagger ladies! Someone is always taking notice.