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How to Go Down on a Woman and Have Her Begging for More - Oral Sex Secrets Exposed, Lick by Lick

Sex Tips & Advice - How to Go Down on a Woman and Have Her Begging for More - Oral Sex Secrets Exposed, Lick by Lick

With all the societal and social stigma telling women they have to be "good girls", very few feel comfortable talking openly about sex in general.

So it’s no surprise that most women won’t tell you they’d love for you to "go down on them". Sure it can bring them immense pleasure, but it’s rare for a woman to make that request of her man.

Here’s what’s even worse. Amazingly enough, many women have NEVER experienced an orgasm! Think about that for a minute… never having had an orgasm.

Now, how would YOU like to be the one to give her that very first magical mind blowing orgasm? To give her all that pleasure.

Here are some surprising facts about women and oral sex 

  • there are 8,000 nerve endings in a woman’s clitoris?  More than on the head of a penis or any other part of the human body?  With something that sensitive, you better know what you’re doing before you go poking around, especially with your tongue. 
  • 88% of married women say cunnilingus is their preferred form of sexual activity? 
  • 81% of women regularly achieve orgasm from cunnilingus, versus
  • only 25% from traditional vaginal penetration? 
  • only 60% of women say they enjoy vaginal sex at all? 
  • only 7.7% of women who experience more than 21 minutes of properly rendered foreplay fail to reach an orgasm?  That’s over nine out of ten women who do experience an orgasm when their lover understands a woman’s body and how to drive it to new heights of ecstasy 

So what role SHOULD men play here?

Of course men don’t usually think twice before asking their woman to give them oral sex, or even try back door sex with them, which is now often referred to as "the new oral". But here’s the rub. Considering everything she does for YOU, to get YOU excited, isn’t it about time you went out of YOUR way to give HER an amazing orgasm or two?

It’s time to step up and surprise your woman with the gift of orgasm and oral sex from her man.

Today, it isn’t about you, it’s about HER. And if you’re not doing the right things to really get her excited, then what’s the point? 

Here’s our review of Oprah Love Expert, Michael Webb’s excellent Lick by Lick - How to Go Down on a Woman and Have Her Begging for More.

This book is a revealing step by step guide at oral sex and female orgasm from the master of romance. It’s about time we heard from a man known as a true romantic on the real sexual needs of a woman.

Most guys have SO much difficulty actually talking openly to their lovers about anything having to do with sex. Men don’t have trouble asking for one sexual favor or another, their problem is getting into intimate details with their partner… finding out what SHE really likes without getting the male ego bruised.

But it CAN be done, and the results should really improve your sex life - by satisfying the desires of BOTH partners.

Michael walks you through ALL the questions you need to ask your lover - so you REALLY find the right spot and bring her insane pleasure. Better yet, keep it fun - make this into an erotic date night game! 

This book actually goes into the touchy details, like…

  • how to make her comfortable talking about RECEIVING oral sex from you
  • how to build the trust so she’ll welcome you
  • how to break through her self-consciousness barrier while overcoming your own inhibitions about cunnilingus
  • how to recognize and navigate the 8 components of the female genitalia with your tongue, and make them love it
  • how to tell if she’s enjoying herself just by watching and listening
  • 8 questions to ask to determine what she really wants
  • 9 tips for getting her ready for you, and for it
  • 5 ways to set the romantic stage for cunnilingus
  • 4 techniques to prepare her body for your most intimate attention

Summary: 

One thing we didn’t like about Lick by Lick - How to Go Down on a Woman and Have Her Begging for More was the long and extensive focus on safe sex, sometimes to the point of taking all the fun out of it! Your mileage may vary of course. Fact is, Michael just added all that information so that you’re informed and you have it if you want it.

Overall this book is a great guide to pleasuring your woman and we highly recommend it.

A lot of men could score some serious points with their ladies for just THINKING about bringing them this type of pleasure - not to mention actually downloading this guide and mastering the techniques. It’s not hard, it just takes a little initiative. :-)

Get your copy right now before you get busy and forget. Surprise your woman with the gift of oral pleasure… Isn’t she worth it?

While you’re at it, you’ll definitely want to check out Michael’s other terrific resources below. 

One of our personal favorites is 500 Sex Tips and Love Making Secrets That Everyone Ought to Know.

Don’t put it off.

You’ll kick yourself if you don’t download Lick by Lick - How to Go Down on a Woman and Have Her Begging for More today.

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11 Responses to “How to Go Down on a Woman and Have Her Begging for More - Oral Sex Secrets Exposed, Lick by Lick”

  1. College Candy » Oral Education…Are You Listening, Guys? on August 31st, 2007 10:18 am

    […] that there’s something wrong with her. But guess what? According to sex advice column Ask Dan and Jennifer, just only 7.7% of women who experience more than 21 minutes of properly rendered foreplay fail to […]

  2. JAMES on September 13th, 2007 7:54 am

    MY WIFE AND I HAVE BEEN MARRIED 14YRS AND I CAN NOT GET HER TO GIVE ME ORAL SEX AND I AM NOT ALLOWED TO PERFORM IT ON HER EITHER WHICH I WOULD LOVE TO DO

  3. --jj on September 24th, 2007 6:30 am

    Your paragraph “So what role SHOULD men play here?” sounds awful bias and condescending towards men. In this day and age, many men are open and often partakers in providing oral sex to there female partners.
    It’s no longer a taboo subject and I have never heard of a guy unwilling to do such acts. I think men are just more vocal about asking for oral sex, and would be more willing to partake if there partner would only be just as openly vocal.

  4. WriterWriter on September 24th, 2007 6:30 am

    Hi,

    Fun post. Girls like it when it’s done right.

  5. Alice on October 7th, 2007 12:07 am

    I was married for 11 1/2 years and the sex was good. Then I divorced and remarried. While my husband (now) and I were dating our sex was AMAZING!!! I never knew a woman could have an orgasm like that. I would literaly drench him and the sheets by just having regular sex with no stimulation of the clitorious. Again it was amazing!! We’ve been married for 2 years now and for the last year at least I am not able to be stimulated inside anymore. I feel his penis in me but it doesn’t get stimulated and quit frankly sometimes I think of other things and hoping he will cum soon so we can be done. Why has this happened? What went wrong? I asked my doctor and he just says to stimulate my clitorious, well I don’t want to have to do that all the time.I want to feel the stimulate my vagina again. Please help.

  6. E. N. Wallington on October 27th, 2007 9:21 am

    First off. You two are the greatest. Your interaction and comfort with each other is inspirational.

    I have a condition where by I cannot get aroused unless the woman I am with has come at least once ( and she must have more during for me to maintain…) Oral is the only way to make EVERY woman orgasm ( and I don’t think ANY woman can fake a real one- and why?) every time. It’s also all about building expectation. Start away from her …uh..”.region ” and SLOWLY get closer and closer.And always remember the “3 Ps.” Patience: unlike men, women enjoy attention to every body part: Progress: Do let them know where you are heading(” closer..closer..)”. and Pay Attention: A womans body gives you a running critique on how you are doing: her breathing, hands, feet, back all tell you how you are doing. Not sure? Ask her!” hows this? Do you like this? Is this OK?” I have had amazing sex where I didn’t even orgasm. Giving a woman that experience is AMAZING in itself. I love, LOVE being down on a woman.
    AND: Don’t use porn as an example of “How To”. They call them actors for a reason….( and you wonder why some men are clueless about technique..)

  7. Victor on December 13th, 2007 3:06 pm

    Hi…my wife never give me oral neither she let me …ny advice?

  8. GW on December 29th, 2007 1:50 am

    I have a girlfriend that says she’s satisfied with just intercourse but I would like to get her off orally but she’s really shy about it. How can I masterbate her or watch her masterbate herself in front of me?

    GW

  9. Reida Bokhari on January 17th, 2008 6:20 pm

    Well…for one thing my boyfriend hates the idea of going down on me…so their definately are men who dont want to go down on women. =\

  10. Hizzoner on February 19th, 2008 12:39 pm

    Girls - clean yourself out - when you stink (and most of you usually do), it’s no fun to be down there.

  11. dc Don on March 1st, 2008 8:16 pm

    I think oral if done right is amazing. The key is to make it fun and exciting and non predictable.You would’nt just have intercourse the same way everytime would you ? Talk to you partner be gental and ask what they like , and listen not just hear but actually pay attention and guaranteed they will pay attention to your needs then the hottest sex begin! This is just ” the prelude to the kiss” Who says that you don’t deserve to make the earth tremble more than once a night …. enjoy kids and cum back with stories or question for me .

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