How to Induce Sexual Desire In Your Bedroom
Picture this: you guys are so into each other that you can’t wait any longer to make love.
You start ripping each other’s clothes off and proceed to the bedroom. Once you get there, somebody steps on a gadget left on the floor causing pain.
You move on but the open window is bringing in all the noise from outside and a strange smell from the nearby garbage dump. You both still try to proceed with sex but the bed hasn’t actually been made that morning and it’s smelling a bit in addition to having cookie crumbs all over it.
You both decide to try again… sometime.
What a bummer! If only you had time to prepare your bedroom for lovemaking! Well read on, following are tips that are GUARANTEED to up sexual desire in your bedroom.
How to Make Your Bedroom Hot, Sexy and Ready for Love… Anytime!
Lighting is everything.
Bright yellow lights or glaring white fluorescent lights contribute nothing to sexual desire in the bedroom. What you need are room lights that can be dimmed or a simple bedside lamp that can be dimmed. Better yet, go for scented candles ready for lighting at a moment’s notice!
Music - and Love - is in the air.
You must have some form of music player in your room right? Make sure that you have a couple of tracks that simply shout LOVE in the air. A couple of Barry White (Michael Buble for the younger crowd) CD’s never hurt. It really depends on what you and she are into in terms of music genres. Some couples like opera music (you know, the crescendos make great backdrops to orgasms!), while other’s prefer a 1980s collection of love songs.
The smell of love…
At this point, we’ll go a bit beyond the scented candles and/or burning scented oils. Try to ‘train’ her to associate a certain smell with lovemaking. The trick here is to condition her brain to think of sex every time she smells a particular smell.
For example, on the first night you plan to engage in foreplay, give her a bunch of red roses (or any flower you know she likes). This way, she thinks of making out every time she smells red roses.
Now, on the first night you plan to engage in sex, make sure red rose petals are scattered on the bed or a fresh bouquet of red roses is in the bedroom. Again, the goal is to make her ALWAYS associate a specific scent to you and your lovemaking sessions!
Action speaks louder than words.
Keep in mind that no trick beats a previously sexually pleasurable or great experience with you. Say that you guys made love a week ago at some other location and you saw to it that she climaxed BEFORE you did, she’ll remember this and you can be sure that this time - in your own bedroom - she’ll be showing you just how grateful she is!
Lee Jenkins is the author of " The Female Orgasm Black Book," which shows you how to truly please the special woman in your life. Isn’t it time?
To find out more, visit The Female Orgasm Black Book website. Read our review here.
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About the author: Lee Jenkins is the author of 'The Female Orgasm Black Book' (a guide for men), which shows you step by step how to give the special woman in your life the sexual pleasure she deserves. Head over to Lee's website today and download his guide to giving your woman orgasm after orgasm, with tips you can actually start using today. You'll be glad you did. (Read our review here).
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