How to Spice Up Your Sex Life and Save Your Relationship
Does he know how you feel?
Open and honest communication is the most important component of any relationship.
Talk about it! Yes, with him, not with your girlfriends, not with anyone else. It’s absolutely amazing how many lovers simply don’t communicate openly and honestly with one another.
So many guys chat about their love live with their buddies, often as a way of bragging and showing off. And then they ask their guy friends if this or that sex idea would be ok. This is a bad idea for guys and girls. If you’re trying to figure out what sexual experiences to try out, talk with your lover not your buddies.
So, does he know that you crave hot spontaneous sex, or that you get excited by playing a little rough? Guess what, he might like that too! Or he might not, but you’ll never know if you don’t explore this topic together. And by the way, you’ll have a lot of fun and get a lot closer in the process.
Don’t hurt anyone’s feelings and check your ego at the door
It’s a strange thing, but sex partners often get their feelings hurt when one of them suggests trying something new, or doing something a little differently.
Get over it! The point of sex and intimacy is to enjoy each other and be happy together! Unless of course you’re focused solely on making babies – but that’s not the topic of this article…
Getting comfortable and killing your relationship
Complacency, also known as "getting comfortable" is the death knell of so many relationships, it may as well be a full blown epidemic. So many couples strive to "get comfortable". What that means is they stop trying. And guess what… you stop trying, and your relationship dies. It’s that simple. The excitement and attraction dies, and your relationships becomes a project that you’re always fixing up. That’s no fun.
So how can you add that spice and excitement back into your relationship so that you’re not just lusting after those hot bodies at the gym?
Seduction as a game for lovers – the chase begins anew
The thrill of seduction doesn’t end when you get into a relationship. Why give up such a wonderful thing, even if you could?
Admit it, we enjoy the chase. I know I do and I’m at peace with it. And if you’re not chasing your lover, you’ll end up chasing someone else. We’re just wired that way. So let’s just accept that fact and use it to our advantage.
When was the last time you tried to seduce your partner? …
