How To Work It – From A Chick Who Knows What Works!

Oh ladies, we’ve all been there! You are in the midst of sexual play and you think to yourself, “Now would be a good time to get that telepathic message through of what I like and don’t like.”  However, these thoughts tend to come to us when we are in the middle of the action which doesn’t tend to be the best of times to voice our “I’d like it better if’s…..â€Â 

You’ve gotta give a guy credit for trying and you certainly don’t want to bash his ego or deter him from making an effort to please you.  So, take a mental note of what you like, or changes to his moves you’d like to see and very gingerly bring them up at a more appropriate time (outside of the bedroom?). 

Well, that or have him read my suggestions here!  Funny how you just ‘happened’ to come across this article and ‘wouldn’t this be fun to try?’  Okay so cat’s out of the bag if he’s actually reading THIS part, but fellas–some technique tips FROM a woman about how to WORK your woman can put your TALENTS in a whole new league!!!

She’ll Appreciate the Little Things.

First of all I’m going to assume you’ve made an attempt to set the mood. Women don’t necessarily always NEED a mood set but definitely appreciate it when an effort is made, and this article, is about what women WANT, not just what’s passable. It doesn’t have to be like this EVERY time, but this is what we like. 

Show your desire for intimacy early on – flirt. Slide up behind her and give her a little squeeze early in the day. It’s the little things – always.  Yes, candles, music, wine and NOT rushing into penetration count BIG TIME.  In fact, spending TIME on foreplay is beneficial to both of you. 

You’ll bring her to a place of unbelievable excitement and you should definitely expect the same in return.  Kissing is so important to women because it’s so intimate. Kiss her slowly and don’t just kiss her lips. Work that neck, kiss her hand, up the inside of her forearm. Enjoy it; spend some time.

The KEY is to NOT do this stuff because you HAVE  to but do it and genuinely take each other in.

Move onto holding her close. Feel her body while her clothes are still on. Get her worked up so she wants to be naked as badly as you do.  Undress her and make it known that you desire every part of her body as you display it.  I’m hoping she’d respond and undress you as well.

Continue the Savoring!….

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